Me pēhea te ki te ata te tamaiti, He aha te mea te totoa ranei?

O te akoranga, hari mātua ina kite ratou e he pūkoro me te kaha te tamaiti. Ia hohoro mohio e tau ana ki te taiao, āhuatanga e sociability me te pākiki. Mahi - Ko te tohu o te hauora o te tamaiti. Ki te karanga ia, ka kata rite ki te āhuatanga, haere ki te whakapā ki ngā pakeke, me te tākaro ki ō rātou hoa, i te mea kei au maite tona whanaketanga. Heoi, atu me te ake noa ariā o te totoa i tamariki, te aroaro o nei nga mātua i te tahi mau fifi. Tuatahi o te katoa, kua fehangahangai pakeke ki te raruraru, me pehea ki te tamarû i te tamaiti i roto i te āhuatanga i taua.

Ko te meka e he noa ki e rua tamaiti kaha, me te pahara, nga āhuatanga i runga ake. Heoi, kei te āhuatanga te muri e huringa auau, me te ohorere o te tūāhua, fakaaoao, haurangi, te whakama me te inattention. I roto i te mau faaiteraa kōhungahunga o tenei huru ko te whakarerenga o te ra, me te moe i te po, rahunga i roto i te aratau mana. Ka rite ki syndrome kia timata ki te whakakore rite hohoro rite taea, no te mea ka kino ia te reira i te tamaiti, me te ka i te kura, me te i roto i te ora.

Na, me pehea ki te tamarû i te tamaiti pahara,, i reira e he torutoru ture:

1. Tino tāutu te mahinga o ia rā, me te piri ki te reira. Me ēnei tamariki ki te kai, moe me te haere i te wa ano. I te haere, te utu ake whakarongo ki kēmu kaha ki te "i roto i" te pūngao i te taikaha.
2. A faaitoito i to koutou kōhungahunga ki te hau a kōrero. Kia mahara ki e te pātai o te pehea, ki te ata te tamaiti, e kore e tauturu ake i te reo. Tautautefito i te take o te tamaiti taua e kore he he ia, e he rawe ki ki tenei ahua ia. Pinepine whakamoemiti ia, rawa ki te kawea e ia tīmata te reira ki te mutunga (ko te kupu whakaongaonga koe manawanui). Ko te meka ko e maha maturuturu tamariki pahara, i roto i o nga mea katoa, kihai i whakaotia, a ka tangohia ake te mahi parekareka hou.
3. I runga i te pātai o te pehea, ki te ata te tamaiti ki te huru pahara, he huarahi wahi nui ki te kai tōtika. He mea tika ki te whakawhāiti i te whakamahi o pahuhu, tote, he paowa, ka whakanui ake i te nui o maoa, rihi tatao, me te huawhenua, hua me ngā hua miraka. He mea nui ki te āta whakarite i te whiwhi te tinana o te tamaiti huaora nui me ngā ōpapa. Na kia mahara: e kore e whakaititia, ia ki te kai, ki te kahore e hiahia ia.
4. E mea pinepine, e whakarite te tākuta enei tamariki te whiwhi rongoā e te hunga pai ki te tīmata tango tonu. Tino āwhina i roto i te āhua o ki te ata te tamaiti, ko reira he mirimiri rorerore, e kia kawea i roto i wā. No te tauturu i tō pēpi ki te moe, tunu ia he pati ki te decoction o rēmana pama, Peppermint valerian ranei.
5. A, no te tomo koutou etahi ahua o te aukati, kia mohio ki te whakahere i te kē taea. Hei tauira, ki te ae te tamaiti he pukapuka, hoatu ki a ia te niupepa mō tenei whakaaro.
6. Kaua e tukua ki a ia noho roa i roto i mua o te TV rorohiko ranei.
7. A, no te kōwhiri porowhita, ko wai e kia toro tō tamaiti, hoatu hiahia ki te hunga i reira e taea maka ia atu pūngao.
8. Kia mahara e te ara pai e founga ki te ata te pēpi - he aroha mātua. A, no te karanga te tamaiti, tauahi ia me te pat ki runga ki te hoki matenga ranei. Hoki ngā tamariki he whakapā tinana tino nui.
9. E mea pinepine e mea tamaiti e aroha ana koe ki a ia, fakamamafa'i tona faufaa i roto i to outou oraraa. E ume nei ua tahā hiahia mō te fafale: e hiahia ana ratou ki te kia aroha hoki te hunga e ratou.

O te akoranga, e kore he ngāwari nga matua o te tamaiti i taua: Me nga tamariki tokanga makehe, me te aho motuhake o te mahi. Kia mahara ki taua te totoa - ko e kore te mate. Ka taea e koe te huri i tenei e piri ki etahi ture o mahi. Na kia mahara e te tākaro ki te tamaiti, e kore e te āwhina anake koe ia, engari ano hoki ki te tiki ki te mohio ki a ia ofi ange. Ko te mahi o ngā mātua - ki te āwhina i ngā tō tamaiti ki te hapori, kitea ratou me te smoutverditsya, kaua ki te waihanga complexes.