Whaktauiratia o whaturama o whanaunga: me pehea ki te waiho i te taata, eiaha râ e faainoino ia

Hanga he hononga i waenganui i te tangata me te wahine e taea e rawa uaua. Ko te rerekētanga i roto i te perception o te ao, reka, me te titiro ki te taua mea ka haafifi i te āhuatanga anake. A pera tupu te reira whakapumautia e te te hononga, engari e kore e te tahi mea tāpiri ake. I kotahi ira ite ia e kore ko tona pai rawa te tetahi aroaro ia i muri ki tetahi ki tetahi. Na ka ki reira ko te raruraru - me pehea ki te wehewehea ki te taata eiaha râ e faainoino ia.

Aha te reira na pakeke ki te wahi i te hononga

Tino maha tupu te reira e ko te reira kua taea ki te kia tahi. Whanaungatanga e hou, mana'o hauhautanga, riro koe kamupene kino o tou hoa. e mea he e te ara he mārama: mea noa e hiahia ana koe ki te waiho. Heoi, i te reira tino he pakeke ki te mahi. kia kia tino rerekē nga take:

• Ko wehi te kotiro, e ka meinga te mamae taata, a ka tukua e ia;
• Ki te taitama tangata riri, i reira ko te ati e kore i taea e ia matau i te whakatau o tona hoa, ka meinga tona mamae tinana;
• i reira ko te hiahia ki te noho hoa, engari e kore ia i te matau me pehea ki te wehewehea ki te taata eiaha râ e faainoino ia i te wa ano e kore i tahuri atu ia i reira;
• kia hoki kia ia e wehi o taua taata i muri pekanga ka timata ki te korero ki etahi atu e pā ana ki ona mea ngaro.

enei take katoa kia reira mārama e kore e nga take he e hamama i roto i. e kore e hiahia ana te reira i tetahi kotiro ranei te tangata taitamariki. Ko reira Na tika ana ki te mohio me pehea ki te waiho i te taata, eiaha râ e faainoino ia.

Paunatia i te "AtAKi" katoa me "raruraru"

I mua i timata koe whakaaro e pā ana ki te mahere wehenga i ahuareka ai, me titiro e koe ki te āhuatanga i taha katoa me ki te whakaaro - ahakoa e hiahia ana koe i te reira tino. Mai i te wā wa ki, Kei te haere nga hononga i roto i te wā o te raruraru. kia tika ki te tahi mau take tino no rapae tenei. Te taata kotiro ranei raruraru i reira ki te mahi, kura, hoa, te utuafare, me ētahi atu A, ki te kahore e kitea e ratou te tautoko i roto i te hononga, haamata te reira ki te mea e te tangata ke i muri e kore he ahei o te matauranga e. Ko te raruraru te mutunga whakatau me te inoino tamau e wareware. Ko te mau hopearaa o enei wharanga taea radically taui i te oraraa. A e kore e hoki te pai.

Ki te kore e whai ki tiwerawera tatarahapa te mau hopearaa, e kore e tangohia whakatau i raro i te arata'iraa o te kare. Katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te marie paunatia me te whakaaro. A, ki te i muri i taua ia mau te kupu ki a ia: "E hiahia ana tino ahau ki te wahi ki te taata" - he reira wa ki te tīmata ki te tango i mahi.

Me pēhea te ki te kōkiri i te wehenga

Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te tangi i te mau hopearaa o te whati i taka, he mea e tika ana ki te mohio me pehea ki te waiho i te taata. Eiaha râ e faainoino ia, riro ia he rota o mōhio mo ratou. Na, i te mau rave'a e:

• Ngaro i tona ora. O te akoranga, ki te mahi i tenei e kore koutou kia koimutu. Ka rite ki te ara i roto i - uaua kite i tahi i te tahi ki te whakaiti i te roanga o te hui, tamata kore ki te karanga ia ia. e kia te kōwhiringa pai ki te pai te haere i te wahine i roto i o te pa mo etahi wa. Ina e, ka haere mai i te hononga ki noa iho.
• Hanga i te reira na taua maka te taata te tuatahi. Ki te mahi i tenei, me tamata tatou ki te tikanga rite te kotiro, na ka anga ia ki te mukākā a faariri te tangata taitamariki. Meatia nga mea katoa e te nuinga ia totonú. Na ka mōhio te taata e kore ratou e whai i te rua, a kia whakatau ki te waiho ia.
• Waiho mā te tangata SMS. Tenei tikanga he tino tika, ki te kore e taea e ki te faaite tika ratou mau mana'o ia, a ka he ia ia kino ki te whakamōhio i te whakatau ki te waiho. Ka taea e te SMS faaite humarie katoa, ui mo te faaoreraa hara, a ka, ki te whakatau ia ki te karanga hoki, e kore e tangohia te waea.
• Whakarite he i. Hoki tenei e hiahia ana matou i te awhina o te hoa pai ko wai e taea ki te tākaro haere me haamata nuitia uatoko ki te taata. Pea e kore ia i hoki mai i te mana'o, engari i muri i te oreraa ki whiua he pai katoa, ka taea e koe ketia i te āhuatanga ki te painga o ratou.

ara pohewa

I roto i ētahi wā, kotiro hiahia ki te wehewehe hononga katoa ki te taata ake. Kaua e hiahia ki te waiho hoa, ki te whakawhiwhi i, a kahore e ratou tiaki, me pehea ki te ariu ki reira te tangata taitamariki. e kore e hiahia i roto i mawehe ki te tangata, eiaha râ e faainoino ia enei kotiro. I roto i tenei take, ka taea e koe tamata ki te whakamahi i ngā tikanga maha o te tapahi, i to koutou ake mōrearea:

• Ka taea e te kotiro tinihanga e piri takatāpui. O te akoranga, ka meinga ai te whakama i roto i te taata, engari kihai ia i i haere ki raro, te kiritau-, a ka tukua e ia iti.
• Hurihia te reira. Ko te ara tino whakaari, me te meá tenei. Ka taea e te tangata tauhohe e ohorere, me te kino rawa. Ko te tāpiri anake - pakaru inamata, kahore whakamārama atu.

He nui tenei

Mawehe ki te taata, e hiahia ana koe ki te whatiia atu hoapā katoa me te rapu kore ake ki te hoki ki tenei take. Ētahi wa ko reira pai kore ki te kite i te katoa, e kore e karanga ake, ka e kore noa whakaaro e pā ana ki ia atu. Kore, kia ia ite he e whawhati ki te taata ake. Ka taea e te ma'ima'i riro kore anake te tangata, engari ano hoki i te āputa kaiwero.

He pai ki te faanevaneva koe. Ki te mahi i etahi mahi, te rumaki koe i roto i te ako, te mahi. Kia wātea atu ki te hoa. Ka rite ki te kōwhiringa - ki te kitea he rauaruhe, te kupu ka haere hohoro a ki pai te wa. Ko te mea matua ko te ki te ora i te wā tuatahi i muri i te wehenga, a hohoro ka whakapai ake katoa o te ora.