Amuiraa kapu whati pehea ranei ki te whakaora whanaunga ki tana tane

kia whai ia whānau raruraru ki māramatanga tahi. Ko reira - tukanga tino noa. 'I hono kehé, hanga ana e ia tino kaitiaki hononga o te tokorua. I muri i te katoa, e kore e te iwi tino te tīariari, a reira he taua idyll utuafare, i roto i te meka, e taea e whakairo tākaro he Maumau. He tika te kaiwhakaari atamira i te mutunga o te tākaro i konei i reira he kahore ngakau whati me disorders hinengaro. Ki te i roto i to outou oraraa ki a koutou potiki aroha, kua puta kē te whakararuraru, e kore te mahi hepohepo. He pai ki te tātari marie te āhuatanga, me te tika whakahoki te pātai: me pehea ki te whakapai ake whanaunga ki tana tane, a ahakoa te reira utu mahi i te katoa?

Wā o te weriweri, me o te aroha, te tuatahi marama hari tahi ora me ētahi wā noa nga tau ki te huna pai i tatou i te mau hapa o te kotahi i aroha. Ko, pono ka kite tatou e kore te mea tana tahu, he mehua o te mana ranei aroha rawa o kakai te mutunga i te po i roto i te kamupene o tangata ke ahakoa, engari muhumuhu helpfully ta'oto tonu: ia - he tangata tūturu, me ia - te wairua o te kamupene. Neke atu i te wa, kua puta enei "painga" i roto i hapehape mārama e hoko atu kitea, tīmata ki te meinga ritenga, i te mea te tohu tuatahi o te raruraru te utuafare. Ki te ohorere ka nga kohakore o koutou hoa fuu hoki koutou, whakaaro tenei: pea kia tangohia te whati, me te tātari i te āhuatanga.

Otiia ki te meinga te hononga kino ki tana tane, kaua, raru kāinga, rohirohi whānui, kore o ngā mahi rōpū ranei, tei to ratou tiaki i runga i faaipoipo e rua. I roto i te āhuatanga i taua, kaimātai hinengaro tohutohu ki te hoatu ia atu rite nui te wā me te aro. Ano, e taea e kore anake e haere ana i te reira te hīkoi i roto i te wharekai whare tapere ranei ranei. Tetahi haapoupouraa pai, ataata ngawari pa ranei - te taahiraa tuatahi ki te māramatanga o tetahi.

I roto i te tikanga ki te mārama me pēhea ki te whakapai ake i whanaunga ki tana tane, e te mea āwhina e whai ake mahi hinengaro. Wehewehe i te wahi o te pepa ki te 2 wahi, he tika te tīwae 1 ki te tomo i te mau huru o to koutou hoa e faahiahia koutou, me te 2 - te hunga e hiahia ana ki te huri i te reira. Kia koutou tino ki te mahi i te taua. Ki te he "pai" te wahi atu ngā, e kore te mea te take mo te āwangawanga kia nui - puta noa i tetahi atu raruraru iti, kia pai kia taea ki te hinga koe. Ka taea e Patience, kare pai, me te hou wheako te āwhina i roto i te taua mea i ahuareka ai. Otiia ki te mea te "tōraro" o te rangatira - ko te tohu ohorere, tohu e i roto i to outou utuafare i reira he raruraru nui.

Me pēhea te ki te whakaora whanaunga ki tana tane i roto i te taua āhuatanga uaua? Ka taea e koe te tamata ki te kite i te kaimātai hinengaro, engari mahara e ki te whakaoti i to ratou mau fifi i roto i te whānau ka taea ki te tika a koutou me to koutou hoa. Tuatahi o te katoa, ako ki te korero i te reo kotahi. Feruri i te mea kāhua o te whanonga whiriwhiri koe mo te whakahaere noa ki te kotahi i aroha. Mahalo koe maha rawa whakamahi i te whakapakoko o te matua tamaiti ranei, ka kei te ngana koutou hoa ki te tohe tenei ki a koutou i runga i te taumata rerekē. Ko mo kōrero whai hua e hiahiatia ana te, rite he iti, te taua "kupu" me te whānuitanga rite o ngā ariā. Ētahi atu kōrero mō tenei e taea e koe te ako i nga mahi o te hinengaro American Erika Berna.

Tuarua, he mea e tika ana ki te faaite ki te hoa o koutou whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea e kore koutou e rite. Otiia ki te faaite i te kerēme ki ata, kahore kare kino faufaa. I muri i te katoa, o koutou whāinga - ki te mārama me pēhea ki te hanga hononga ki tana tane, me te kore ki te whakapataritari tetahi atu take. Na reira, tamata i te tauira whakautu ki kite ata, e ngana ana ki te titiro i te pakanga "i waho" me rawaka kite fakaanga.

I mua i whakahoki te pātai: me pehea ki te pupuri i te hononga ki tana tane, whakaaro - he aha e hiahia ana koe i te reira tino. Kōwhiringa: hoki nga tamariki, e kore e ki te e anake, kia rite ki te kore ki te whakangaro i te utuafare, ki te waiho i te mema tonu o te hapori - e kore e manakohia. He he kotahi anake whakahoki tino tika, a ka tangi te reira rite tenei: aroha ana ahau ki a faatura toku tahu, e tatou pai ki te mahi ki te hinga fifi katoa, rite to tatou mana'o tahi ko tino utu reira.