Ki roimata: pukapuka o tona papa ki tona tamahine ki Down syndrome i tona ra marena

Pol Dogerti, te rongonui kaituhi Ingarihi me wahi-wa papa, i tuhituhi te pukapuka pono pa ki tona tamahine ki Down syndrome i tona ra marena. Tenei ko te kuputuhi o tenei pukapuka i roto i te iritiraa Russian.

Reta o te tamahine a Paora Doherty a

"Gillian aroha! I teie mahana, ka kia tū koutou marena. Mai i tenei ra, ka haere koe, ka Ryan i roto i te ora tahi. Ka waiho tenei ra te timatanga o to koutou aamu utuafare. e kore ahau e mohio me pehea pea ko reira e te kotiro ki Down syndrome e taea ki te kitea e te aroha o tona ora, me te marena te tangata, engari e mohio ana ahau e meatia e koe i te reira!

Na kei a koe i roto i tou ruma. Fakataha ki tona whaea, me wahine he mahi koe taka whakamutunga ki te titiro i tenei ra ataahua rawa. Kei te tāpae kē tō makawe i roto i te huruhuru tiketike, te whakatuwhera i te kaki kikokore. Tō kakahu potae (koe karanga hauti ratou "ratou trinkets") rata katoa hihi o te ra ahiahi te mutunga. Tō hanga-ake (me rawa tenei lipstick kanapa) mau koutou āhuatanga ataahua. Na he ataata korōria i runga i tou mata.

Ko ahau nei i roto i te marae o to tatou whare, ara e ahau toku matenga, me te titiro ki runga i to koutou matapihi. I roto i taua mau taime, no te mea kei te ki i te tumanako mo te heke mai o tatou ngakau, ite tatou ora rawa. Katoa e moe matou, i mahi i te ao, me te tohu i te viivii ore pai. Oaoa tino. mārama ite i te reira ahau, e tu ana i raro i to koutou matapihi.

Kua hiahia ahau ki te korero ki a koutou, engari kia matau ki ahau e whai ahau kahore kupu ...

A, no te i whanau koe, a ka tipu ake, to koutou whaea, me ahau rawa manukanuka ki to koutou ahunga whakamua akoranga. O te akoranga, kua mahi matou taea nga mea katoa ki te hoatu ki a koutou te mātauranga pai, kitea e matou i te mau orometua pai. Kua tuhia matou koutou angitu, no te mea kua kite matou pehea tamata koe, a ka tika te reira faatura.

meatia e matou katoa e taea e mahi tatou. Ko te mea anake i mahue ki waho to tatou - o koutou whanaungatanga ki te hoa. hiahia matou ki te hanga farii i te tahi atu tamariki koutou, te āwhina ia koutou, kia ki a koutou i muri. whakaaro matou: "E kore He te ora o te tamaiti katoa kia ki tonu i te hui ki te hoa, whakapau i te po ki nga whare ia atu o? He aha te momo o te tamarikitanga, ki te mea kahore he rā whānau hoa me te taputou? He kore tika o tenei katoa ko to tatou tamahine? "

Ko ahau āwangawanga e pā ana ki a koutou ...

karanga ahau taua po ka haere mai ki raro koe ki a matou ki tona whaea, ka mea kanohi: ". E ahau kahore hoa"

e hiahia ana matou katoa tatou tamariki ki te kia hari. hiahia matou ratou hauora me te oaoa, e hiahia ana noa tatou i ta tatou mau tamarii ki hei tamariki. Na roto i te matau o te whanau ia tamaiti he hiahia ki te noho i te tamaiti. Na ko manukanuka koutou ahau, māharahara e pā ana te mea ki te mahi i ki tou hiahia ki te waiho i te kotiro iti noa.

Otiia kihai ahau i whai ki te manukanuka ...

Ko koe te taiao taua, ina tae mai te reira ki te kōrero. I roto i te haapiiraa tuatahi, koe hauti i huaina "te tavana" no te mea ngāwari koutou taea huihuia nga tamariki katoa me te tahi mea e ngākau nui ana ratou. A i roto i te kura nui e whai wāhi koe i roto i te kanikani, me te te raveraa i runga i te atamira. I roto i te wa katoa e kei koutou i roto i te kāreti, i taea e koe waiho i te mana'o tonu i roto i te wairua o ia tangata maheni ki a koutou.

mahara e koe te hunga mea rite tohu koe, e kore e taea e koe? ka mea koe e kore koe ako ki te eke i te pahikara, e kore koutou e taea e tākaro hākinakina. ka mea te iwi e kore e whiwhi koutou ki te kāreti, e kore tetahi e hinga i roto i te aroha, me te kore koutou e whiwhi faaipoipo ... A inaianei titiro ahau ki a koutou i roto i tenei kakahu marena ataahua!

kei koe te pai o te tangata i mohio ahau. Koe - te tangata, taea ki te ora, kahore tinihanga me te tinihanga. e mohio ana koe tino pehea ki te tangi ki, ka tamata tonu ki te āwhina. Pea e hiahia ana ia o tatou ki te whakatau i roto i te ora o te tangata rite koe.

Koe ko Ryan e tino waimarie ki te whakatau tahi i te tahi. e kua hoatu e ahau ki a koutou i te mana kōkiri ki te aroha ki a ia ki toku ngakau katoa, engari i reira, a pera ko reira kitea e ite koe mo ia te mau mana'o tino haavare ore. kua korerotia e ahau ki a koutou ki te kia ngawari, me te ngawari ki a ia. Ko koe a kahore toku whakaaro he taua tika. hiahia ahau te rua o a koutou i te auhoaraa mahana me te manaaki tētahi ki tētahi, engari no te mea e mārama ki te tangata i enei ongo i waenganui koutou e matau ana ki a koutou.

Kotahi tekau tau ki muri, he taata i roto i te take, me te ki te hainga o puawai ka karanga i to tatou kuwaha, ka mea, "E hiahia ana ahau ki te ani i to koutou tamahine ki te hulohula, ariki." Ko i taua momeniti mohio ahau e ka waiho koutou ora tonu, e ka waiho ia oaoa.

Na inaianei ki Ryan tango i te taahiraa i roto i te ora hou. Kaua e wehi o tenei, no te mea tahi e manuïa koe.

Na inaianei, kua oti taka katoa i me toku kotiro iti kei te haere ki te whakatau i kakahu ahau i roto i ma. Ahau he manawa atu, me anake te mea e taea e ahau te mea: "pehea te pai titiro koe!".

Otiia ka tango ahau i ahau i roto i te ringa: "E matou ki te haere. Ko te wa ki te tango i tenei taahiraa faufaa. "