Hinga ahau i roto i te aroha. He aha ki te mahi?

E turai te aroha te ra, tataki nga mea timatanga, me te taui te hanganga o tinana mātotoru. Power o atawhai aroha me atawhai, whakatere me e tuku e rere. He kotiro, he wahine ranei, hipokina e tenei ope mutu ki kite mooni te ara kua tonu reira, a ka matau: "hinga ahau i roto i te aroha. Aha kia meatia e ahau? "Kia aroha mai, i tenei ra, i roto i te tau o te taurite me te whai wāhitanga rahi, riro whakaraua i roto i te whanaungatanga wahinetanga, a maha hopoi aroha mate atu i te oaoa. He aha te take e memeha? No te mea o te whakama i roto i ngā ariā. I teie mahana, e whakaako tamariki tuhituhi, tauhanga, te pūtaiao, me te tumu o te ōhanga, engari e kore e whakaako i te tangata ki te faatura a te tiaki i te wahine. Ehara i whakaako ki te pānui i roto i o ratou ngakau, ki te wehewehe i waenganui i te aroha me te aroha. Ko te whakaaro pai ki te faaohie i te ora, kua heke kaipūtaiao takoto ki sex. Ko nga wahine e kore e wareware noa te ngakau o te attraction, ahakoa he tokomaha i roto i tenei feinga, ka ite tona oto tuatahi ...

Aha e meatia e ahau, ki te ahau i roto i te aroha?

tangata whakaaro nui te mea, kia mau ki o koutou waewae mahana me te upoko i roto i roto i te matao. Ko, kite koutou, kei ratou waimarie i roto i te ora - e kore ite tenei ruku whānui ki te weriweri: patu te ngakau vahi i roto i te korokoro o te, maroke ngutu, āmai, Maku ona ringa manawa wera, a kihai noa rēhita te tākuta te hua i roto i te pāmahana. A, no te tupu tenei, e matau ana koutou, hinga ahau i roto i te aroha. Aha ki te mahi i roto i te āhuatanga i taua? Ki te kei koe tau kotahi tekau ma rua anake tau, e kore te auraa i te reira e kore e rite mo te whakamātautau nui koutou. A feruri iho - inaianei, ina kei a koutou i roto i te aroha, tae te ao katoa i ki tupapaku hou nga ra ite koe i te tikanga faahiahia o te oaoa. toro koe auau ahua whakahe ki te faaara i te mumura katoa.

Otiia i koe e matau ia e te huarahi ki te Rā anga incineration. Ki te riro i te ahanoa o te weriweri whetū ūnga - kei a koutou i roto i te waimarie. I reira ka taea e koe te kōrero ki aku hoa - e kore e whatiia reira koutou idyll aroha. Otiia ka whai ki te pupuri i te mea ngaro nga mana'o o te tamaiti tūturu. Ko reira tino uaua, engari he kaha koutou. Kia mau ki te buka aamu, a ringihia awa o here i runga i tona whārangi. He aha e moemoea koe? Mō tauutuutu? Ko te pai, engari te nuinga pea wareware koe ki te korero ki a koutou kia kotahi te mea nui: ara ki te te mahia he tangata taitamariki ki te hononga ki a koutou, me te rapu whakarongo, e hiahia ana koe ki te tirohia i te reira i roto i, kitea i roto i te mea ahua o te tangata ko ia. He āhukahuka pānga kino i runga i mana'o - maha ratou haere ki waho.

Ka rite ki te roa rite whai koe i te wa - oaoa i te mana'o o tona aroha anake. E kore e ki te whāki tona ngaro ki te tangata.

ka mea koe i na fiefia e hiahia tatou ki te mate Romeo and Juliet? Kia anga. Tenei hītori Shakespearean ātahu me tona whakamutunga pouri, wareware katoa timatanga kore iti fakamamahi. Re-pānui i, te wahi i timata ai te katoa: Romeo i te ahua meneti tuatahi i roto i te tākaro i kua i roto i te aroha - Kohara me ta'etokanga, ko, rite kī ia - mo te ora. Ngakau, me tona whakaaro e arotahi ana ki te ahua o Rosaline. Ko te mea e tupu i muri? he torutoru anake haora i muri i te mataora i roto i tona wāhitau, me te mamae tūturu, kite tatou Romeo e oatitia ana ki te aroha Juliet. Ki te i ratou wa ki te whakatau me te whiwhi ki te mohio tetahi ki tetahi, kei hea he te kī taurangi e kore Romeo i te heke mai rawa tata e arata'ihia Juliet haona ... Te tahi mea ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki, te kore te reira?

Ka taea e whai hua e ahau i te wairangi rangitahi?

e kore ahau e whakaaro taua aroha - te reira i te raruraru taiohi anake. "Aue te wehi, hinga ahau i roto i te aroha, aha ki te mahi?" - whakatika taua pātai i roto i nga wahine o tetahi tau. Neuroscientists, psychiatrists, kaimātai hinengaro huanga tenei wheako ki te kāwai o te whakararuraru, pokepoke-hairiiri he tino pono. Aroha - he mea he wheako raruraru e akiakina ana te wahine whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea e hiahia ana ia, he aha ora ia. Tetahi raruraru - ko te pūmanawa mo te mate, me te fanau'i ki te ora hou. Kia aroha mai, e kore e taea e tatou e te whiriwhiri - ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki a tatou e kore e ranei. Ko reira mooni halá, mate o te hinengaro me te ngakau, i homai ki a tatou i roto i te sensation. Otiia ki te mohio te wahine te mea tika ia - te mea he wāhi pai nui ki te tahuri i te raruraru ki te tahi mea pai. I muri i te katoa, ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te rere tupou ki te wanawana i o hononga hou.

Ki te haamana'o tatou, kua whakamahia te nuinga o te iwi auaha āhua o te aroha ki te whakarei ake i to ratou kaha mo te faaiteraa aronganui i roto i te toi. He kore te reira i te rerekē e tika ki roimata i roto i te urunga?

hinga ahau i roto i te aroha, aha ki te mahi? Whakamahia tō tupono!

Ka taea e koe te whakahē, engari iho, aroha ahau te i roto i te aroha. Tenei mana'o He kaha te ora-hoatu, e kore e taea te whakaritea kahore kawhe, kahore waipiro, kahore tiakarete. e kore No cocktail huaora i tu i muri ki te peihana o te oaoa, ki tonu i te aroha. I roto i te meka, e matau ana nga kotiro pehea ki te tika te tuku o tenei koraha. Ki te hinga koe i roto i te aroha - he aha ki te mahi: himene, kanikani, te utu, tuhituhi rotarota, me te tuhi. Whakamahia tō tupono. Ko tēnei āhua o te rere kore e mau tonu. Kuhua te reira i roto i te mahi. Hinga i roto i te aroha ake maha i roto i te iwi i roto i te puawai i roto i te pikitia. Na kia tonu i roto i te aroha ki te ora - te ngaro o te oaoa.