He aha ngā pātai ki te ui i te kotiro ki te hanga he ongo pai i runga i a ia

He aha ngā pātai ki te ui, ka whakatutuki i te kotiro? Tenei pātai o "torturing" o te iwi taitamariki maha. Ki te ko koe tetahi o ratou, me te titiro hoki he kupu i roto i tenei tuhinga, e kore te mea te reira te tikanga e koutou - hemo te hongofulu pimply kati, aitua e pa te tinana o te wahine. No, e kore he pena tenei. Ka taea e tēnei raruraru pā te tangata e hiahia ana ki te ako i te tikanga o te aroha, ki te rerekē i te reira ranei. Hei tauira, ahau - he tangata rorotu, me te harakoa e he maha i roto i te whāiti, i roto i te ara pai, o te akoranga. A ko reira te tahi mau taime e kore uaua aha ki te ako, a tae noa mai ki runga, ka kōrero ki ahau he tangata o te moni. Tei nui i runga i te huru. Na reira, ki te kia maheni ki te kotiro, te wahi e hiahia ana koe ki te rite, e tūtohu ana i roto i te huru pai.

Na, he aha ngā pātai ki te ui, ka whakatutuki i te kotiro? He pai i te iti rawa i roto i te wahi ki te ako e pā ana ki te porohita o ona ngākau nuitanga, e kore ki te tiki i ki te āhuatanga poauau. Otiia ki te kahore e taea tenei, ka aha ka?

Kahore he take ki te "kia titi" i runga i te mea pātai ki te ui i te kotiro. A, no te kōrero koe e ratou timata ki te puta pātai hou katoa :. Mō ona akoranga, mahi, kararehe, me ētahi atu Tino āta ki te pā ki ngā kaupapa tairongo, me te ki nga mea katoa e kia te he riri ia ranei. Hei tauira, e kore e ui tika koutou pātai e pā ana ki ngā mātua (ohorere tata i ia he aituā), te ora tupu (koe e kore e taea e ia te kōrero e pā ana ki reira, ara i muri i te marama torutoru o teití), haapa'oraa (kore e taea e te kaupapa meinga anake totohe, engari te he te kotiro hoki) , tūranga iwi hoki (kia tae ona whanaunga ranei hoa kia he tangata i tetahi atu whenua, ranei, i runga i te anga ke, ka taea e faaite te reira i te mauahara hohonu ki māngai o te tahi atu iwi, ia whakamoemiti koe tetahi o ratou), whakaaro tōrangapū (tenei e nehenehe e haumani, engari tino kore katoa), me te pera i runga i. E mea titauhia ki te whakatata ki te fakamahino o enei mea "i te tawhiti", me te mea e ite koe e reira he tahi mea "he", he pai ki te waiho ratou i roto i te "i muri" kore ki ranei whakarite e te hoa tīmata ia ki te kōrero e pā ana ki reira.

Na ki te taua, he aha pātai katoa ui te kotiro? I runga i wheako whaiaro, rite te māngai o te sex ataahua, e waiho e ahau whakamarie ki te kōrero i runga i taua kaupapa rite:

• Ako.
• Mahi.
• Runaruna.
• mahi wā Free.
• Kai mau peu.
• Whanaungatanga ki hākinakina, kai paipa, te waipiro (kore tika ki te tango i te tūranga äta "mo" ranei "ki").
• Animals.
• Haere.
• Kōhungahunga.
• Hoa.
• Music me ētahi atu.

Ka rite ki a koutou e taea te kite, te whakahaere rawa he rota, a kahore ko te rohe tenei. whakaaro ahau, i runga i tenei, kia pai kia taea ki te hanga he aha ngā pātai ki te ui i te kotiro a koutou.

He mea nui ki te ui pātai e pā ana ki te kotiro, te ani ia whakaaro, no te mea he rite ina e hiahia ratou e ratou. I tua atu, he pai ki te korero interlocutor atu whakama, ka anga ki te mea e kore te mea tika te tahi mea.

Ko te mea tino nui - e kore te reira te mea ki te pātai e ui i te kotiro, me te pehea, ki te tikanga i roto i te piiraa. Te nuinga māngai o te hawhe ataahua o te tangata hiahia iwi taitamariki whaiaro-māia ki te tikanga o te whakakatakata. Ka rite ki te kupu haere, i tetahi tito noa puaki he pakari e huaina te wāhi o te tirohanga o te tangata. Na, i runga i te anga ke, ki te ui pātai i runga i nga tikanga katoa maumau noa, ki te wiri ringa me te reo, i te reira e kore e e mohio a rite whakaritea, kia e te "riro" aau kotiro orotika pea.