Whakatuwheratia e ahau te kāri, me pehea ki te mohio ki te taata, ahau rite ia ranei

I te kuao tau, maha wheako kotiro te mana'o taua e hanga ite ratou, ka wehi ano i te wa ano? - aroha. Katoa matau "tumu", ina whakaaro koe: "aroha ia e ahau ki o koutou ngakau katoa, he aha e kore ia e whakarongo ki ahau? Aha kia meatia e ahau? Me pēhea te ki te Ite i te taata, e ahau rite ia? e kore ranei e taea te mahi? "mano me nga mano o ngā pātai me veiveiua i te hinengaro o te kotiro i roto i te aroha. Ngawari, whakamā, me te "mātauranga tika" tangata, a ka tu i te taha, me te mamae i mau mana'o, whaiāipo.

Pātai: "Me pēhea te ki te Ite i te taata, e ahau rite ia? A ko reira taea ki te rave i te reira i waho fakamā i te taua ia i roto i ona kanohi "-? Whakaongaonga he maha kotiro i roto i kore hohoro ki te whakapuaki i tana aroha, no te mea mai nga wa onamata kia kore e manakohia i roto i te hapori whakapono kia te taahiraa matamua e tonu ki te hanga i te tangata, engari .. me matou anake ki te farii i ona rongo hoki whakaaetia. ko te huri i te ao, me tenei ra, he maha taitamariki wahine e ana i ngā te mana'o hape tawhito, me te nuitia kōrero ratou e pā ana ki to ratou mau mana'o e kore ko to ratou taata tino. Ahakoa te tangata hou ki kaupapa o te wahine i roto i te hononga. ko te mea matua e ko te reira i roto i te whaitake rohe o.

Heoi tupu tenei ki a koutou? tino rite koe te taata, engari he makariri ia, a e kore e whakarongo ki a koutou? ngaro e koe tou rangimarie me te wawahi i tona matenga i runga i te pātai matua: "? Me pēhea te ki te kia mārama ai ki te tamaiti ahau e rite ki a ia" Ki te mea i te reira tika koutou, kahore mea aha, e kore e maia, a ka rere atu to koutou tokomaha ataata, ataata, me tīwhiri i reira rite i pī taiepa? titiro koe ki te kua tamata katoa ki te whakaatu ki a ia tona huru, engari kua outou mau tautooraa katoa i roto i te noa. E hara koe, inoino, ara te riri ki a ia, ka hinga ki te korekore, te whakaaro e ataahua nui.

tūraki tonu tenei kuware katoa i roto o to koutou matenga! Whiti ki runga ki a ia ki te hoatu tino kore e hiahia ana. Reira e kore te rite wehiwehi rite te mea te reira i mawhiti tuatahi. Ahakoa, ki te kei tawhiti koe i te aronui "90-60-90", te take, ko te taea te tangata te tau'a e tino rerekē. Ko reira pea e kua ia kahore whakaaro e pā ana ki o koutou mana'o!

pea kua whakakeke koe: "I muri i te katoa kua mahia e ahau katoa e he taea! I roto i nga ara faaite e ia tona huru! Otiia ki te kahore, i te te taata ki te whakaae e ahau rite reira? "Ko te meka e kore i kite i te tangata taitama koutou tautooraa ranei hē te tikanga a ratou. E te hinengaro rawa rerekē tangata. Ko, te takatu maha tika e kore e hoatu i te mea kitea hoki tatou. E hoki ratou riri ki a tatou, māharahara. Na te pātai o te pehea, ki te whakaae ki mana'o, taata, maheni rawa, whakapono ki ahau.

Na reira, i roto i te tikanga e kore e ki te ururua o koutou raru, e kore e mamae me kaua e māharahara, he reira pai ki te whai i te itoito, kia haere ki a ia, ka mea nga mea katoa nuitia. Na tino e te mea pai. Koe tika ki ia amuihia i te "i". I tua atu, aroha nga tangata, me te mauruuru te ma'itiiti ore o te wahine, me te kore e taea te tu i te momo o tinihanga me panga. I roto i tenei taahiraa, mau hanga koe i te reira te ora māmā me ahau me ia.

Ki te tiki i te reira, e hiahia ana koe ki te whiriwhiri i te wahi e tika ana, me te wa tika. Hei tauira, ki te fakaafe'i ia ki te pikitia i te wharekai ranei. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te kōrero e pā ana ki to ratou mau mana'o i te mahi, e ako ana, ka te reira te mahi te tahi mea ranei, e kore te mea kawea tino tetahi hua. He fakaafe ki te whakapau wā tahi - te kōwhiringa pai rawa. Ki te whakaae ia, te auraa pai ia koutou, a kia whakatuwhera ia ki a koutou. Ki te whakakahore ia, a tae noa faataa te take, na e kore ko reira koutou tangata, ki te noho te wā i runga i te reira tika e kore e utu i te reira.

Otiia, ki te koutou tonu e kore e taea te whakatau i runga i te taua mahi hāngai, tirohia ki hoa mo te tautoko, me te awhina. I te tahi taime te tetahi, me te wa anake ki te mea ki ia parau ( "koe i kore kite e pai koe i tenei kotiro?") Ka taea e te whakaoti i te katoa.

Engari i te mamae i te pātai "pehea ki te whakaae i te taata, ahau rite ia," hei utu o te wheako horihori me te mea ato'ae kohikohi te mōhiohio pai e wātea ana i runga i tou whare, he aha pai ia, he aha miharo aha puoro titiro, me e, i runga i te anga ke, e kore e taea aro ki. Enei mea iti tino mai koutou i roto i te pepa. I muri i te katoa, ki te tona ra whanau, ka riro ia ia he homai i a koutou, e pā ana ki i moe ai ia, pea te whakaaro koe o to outou aau horo'a, me te matauranga. Ko te pea ki te āwhina i hanga ia te whiriwhiri tika tenei.

A haamana'o noa i te reo tohu, te kaha o te pa, me te whakaaro. Ko te ara pai ki te whakaatu i to outou mau mana'o - kanikani puhoi. Ki te hoki tetahi kau kotēhia koe tona tinana ake atu i mua, he titiro tata i roto i te kanohi o te hunga i aroha matakitaki, e kore e matau i te tino wairangi noa koutou mau mana'o.

Te tangata e aroha ana taringa, a ka he tangata kahore okotahi. korero maha ia te mea he faahiahia, pakari me te whakamiharo ia. Te kōrero ki a ia e kore e tika orotika me hoa, a ki te faaururaa tūmatanui. Whakaaturia ia pehea koa kia kite ia ia, rite koutou kua ara te huru ki te kōrero ki a ia e koe. Na e whakapataritari koutou i te reira i runga i te taahiraa matamua. Kia hiahia i roto i a ratou, e ui a faaroo maitai ki te mea ia ta. He kotiro e mohio pehea ki te whakarongo, a kahore e korero bezumolku he nui pea atu ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki te tangata taitamariki.

I tua atu, ka taea e koe te ako e pā ana ki tona huru, me whakaae ana "kata". aroha ko eé hohotushek me nga kotiro harakoa. Pono kata ki ona ngahau, me te whai ngahau koe. I muri i te katoa, ki te ta te taata e kua e ia he kāore tikanga o katakata, te kotiro e pu ia ka waiho i te hoa pai hoki ia tenei. Well, rite he kata, ka taea e koe te ako e pā ana ki a he aha pānga reira koutou.

Kia mahara ki reta o Tatyana ki Onegin. Kia pehea te putapû, me te ataahua! whakaaro he tikanga taua ko te whaiāipo tino o te wā katoa. Ki te wehi ki te haere me te korero katoa i roto i te kanohi, ko reira te otinga tino. Ka taea e koe te tamata tuhi e pā ana ki to koutou aroha pono me te tumanako hoki tauutuutu.

Na kia mahara, kahore he mea te mea e tupu, tino nui, ki te tikanga ki te tura noa te mutunga. Ki te kore koe, na, e kore ko koutou te tangata. Kaua e tangi me te tangi, no te mea ehara i te mea utu koutou roimata. Well, ki te ta ia hiahiatia "aroha", ka mauruuru me aroha tetahi ki tetahi!