Tamariki Āta, pukuriri!

6 kaupae ki te āwhina akakoromaki koe ki fakaaoao o te tamaiti.

"Ko na pukuriri, me te tahi mau taime noa ware taku tamaiti ... omanga ahau e kore i korero ahau ki a ia, i roto i taua mau taime, ngaro noa ahau te manawanui, me te unga i te tamaiti ki tona ruma. E mea pinepine, arata'i tenei ki roimata ... "

I roto i to tatou mahi e fehangahangai tatou (kaimātai hinengaro expertbaby.ru tomokanga) ki pinepine o taua kōrero. A, no te haere tamariki i te wā tahuri o te whanaketanga ranei mo tetahi atu take, kei raro te ahotea, kua unuhia o ratou kare i ki te iwi ki nei ite ratou haumaru tino - i roto i te roditelyay. Ko ngā mātua e rawa te iwi, me te fakaaoao a ratou tamariki riri, i te mea he tauhohenga tino taiao. Riri, meinga matou kōrero, ki te korero ki te tamaiti te mea ki te mahi me te pehea, ki te tikanga, ki te whiua te tamaiti , a tae noa ngangara ki a ia.

Otira ka mea nga tamariki ki te kia riri, me te haere noa, e noa e ngana ana ratou ki te homai ki a matou i te tohu SOS. A, ki te whakahoki tatou, te whakatairanga i tona reo, whakawehi (hei tauira, hakihaki te tahi mea), haere ki atu te piha, "ata iho", e kore matou e whakaae ki te tohu mamae e te tamaiti kia tino mate e tuku ia tatou, a ka waiho i te tamaiti anake me ona raruraru.

O te akoranga, whanonga o te tamaiti ake ano he maina atu te tono mo te awhina, engari e mea e te mātauranga o ngā tamariki - he mahi ohie? Kei raro koe ka kitea e ono nga kurupae ki te āwhina i akakoromaki koe ki fakaaoao o te tamaiti.

1) Hipanga kotahi: Fakamanatu ki koe e ina te karanga koutou tamaiti, e kore e rongo, he pukuriri, te hoatu e he tohu SOS.

O te akoranga, tenei ai fakaaoao ina he ware ki a koutou i te tamaiti. Otiia, ki te taea te tango e koe i te manawa hohonu, me te exhale, kia mau marino, tangohia koe he taahiraa ki te whaihanga o tetahi o nga pūkenga tino nui tō tamaiti - aronganui mana-whaiaro! nui tōtika atu ki ta tatou mahi ako tamariki, e kore e aha te mea tatou. Ki te hamama koe i te tamaiti, whakamārama e he reira e tika ana ki te pupuri i koe i roto i nga ringa, he mea pea kia kia mohiotia e roro o te tamaiti. I te tahi atu te ringa, ki te koutou reo noa - whakaute me te marino, i te heke mai, reo whakaute me te marino, ka riro i te täkupu me te mo to koutou tamaiti.

2) Hipanga 2. Tīwhiri e āhua taratara - te reira kino.

Kaua e hanga te kitea tamaiti, e kore e faahapa i te reira, i runga i te anga ke, tautoko reira, amo e ko te reira i te āwangawanga, whakahere ki te aparau i te reira. Hei tauira: "He pono koe te tahi mea rawa pouri, kōrero tika ki ahau, ano e. Whakaaturia mai ki ahau te mea i tupu ... ". Otiia, ki te koutou tino kahore e mohio ki ta ko te take o tenei whanonga, me te tono pātai karanga ētahi wā maumau tamaiti riri ranei. Whakamātauria ki reformulate te pātai i roto i te whakapae: "E riri koe no te mea i mamae koe te tangata?", "Karanga koe, no te mea kahore ahau e mohio ki ta ki te mahi i?". e kore e hiahia ana koe ki te "whiwhi ki te wāhi", whakaongaonga te waihanga rawa te tamaiti ki te whakautu ki a koutou, tautohe ranei.

3) Hipanga 3: Kia rite ai ka pakaru te whaea.

Ko reira pea e ki tou fakaafe atawhai aparau i te mea i te whakararuraru ia te tamaiti pono kia whakapataritari o kare te waipuke i roto i te whakautu. aituä koe nga mea katoa ki te kitea i roto i te mea hanga ora ia (te tamaiti) he whakamataku, taurite, me te ara fuu. Na pea te meka e ko koe i te take matua. A ka whai koutou ki te whakaatu i te whakaaro nui pono ki te kīa nei tika te tohu tuku. Ko te mea matua e kore e tangohia katoa ka mea te tangata i roto i. Katoa hiahia ia ki te korero ki te tamaiti - te reira te nui te ia pouri.

4) Hipanga 4 mamae.

Ae, i matau ai tatou kei te whakaaro koe: "yells ia ki ahau, a ka whai ahau ki te mamae?!". Ko ko reira koutou faaora aroha. Kupu pērā i "Aue, aroha, kua kite ahau ... kahore he mea whakamiharo kei pouri koe." Turia atu te hiahia ki te kōrero ki a ia i roto o ona rongo, ranei ki te whakaiti ia ratou, ka mea, "ata iho." O te akoranga, he aronganui rawa i taime o fakaaoao te tamaiti. I muri i te katoa, mo te wa roa i tiaki ia ia i te inoino katoa i kawea mai ki raro ki runga ki a ia i tenei ao kino. Na to koutou aumauiui tika te mea hanga te tikanga o te haumaru mo te tamaiti, ka taea mea tetahi e ētehi ia, a kia haere i te reira.

5) Hipanga 5: pai Whakarongo ki whakapataritari i te tamaiti ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te whakatau.

A, no te tamarû iho te tamaiti, ka taea e ia te whakaaro e pā ana ki te taea rongoā. "A ka taea e tatou mo te haere e haere wawe, Mehikitanga Natasha me Maxim?" Tou whakahoki? "Whakaaro nui! Aha atu tatou e nehenehe e rave? "

O te akoranga, e kore ai e rite ki ngāwari ki te whakatinana, pērā i "e kore ahau e hiahia ki te haere ki te piha haapiiraa tuatahi, kaua hiahia noho ahau i te whare" Ko tō whakautu te whakaaro? "Hmm. Hiahia koe kaua noho te kāinga, me te kore haere ki te kura, pea Akakoa koutou inaianei te kura, engari kia whakaaro a e pā ana ki reira, pea i reira he tahi mea e te tauturu ia tatou, he aha atu tatou e nehenehe e rave i te? "

Na ako ki te whakahere whakaaro me ngā rongoā, a reira whakahaere i te manukanuka, ka manukanuka, ka tino nui, faaore te reira i te hiahia ki te whawhai ki te tamaiti, e ngana ana ki te ata ia ki raro i te tamaiti. he huarahi taua ki whakaoti rapanga i roto i te tamaiti hanga whakawhirinaki me te mātau.

6) Hipanga 6: Āwhina tō tamaiti kia tikanga o te mea i tupu.

A, no te aparau i koe ki tou tamaiti te mea i tupu, whakawhanake reira maramarama aronganui, ka whai wāhi ai ki te whanaketanga o ngā hononga neural i roto i te roro e tukua te tamaiti ki te pai te whakahaere o ratou kare (tangi pai, e tika?). Huihuia mai koe, tāpiri i te aroha, he tikanga o te whakakatakata iti, me te kōrero ki tō tamaiti e pā ana ki te mea i tupu. "Ehara i te mea ohie ki te noho marino ina kua i na pouri koutou i tenei ra, i te tuatahi i kino ia ara ahau, engari ka ua ite e ahau pehea pouri koutou ... au koa korerotia koe ki ahau e ahau."

A, no te faaino tatou tamariki ranei tono he whakapāha, he whakakeke ratou. Ki te i runga i te tahi atu i te ringa, faaite i koe tou wheako, me te āwhina i te tamaiti ki te tūhura ana kare, ka whai ia i te whai wāhitanga ahurei ki te mārama me pēhea te e mohio a reira e ētahi atu. A pea ka waiho koe miharo ki te whakarongo ki te hua o te whakapāha a te tamaiti whakawhetai ranei ranei ara "aroha ana ahau ki a koutou."

Ae, nga kaupae whakaahuatia ana i runga e rapu atu te wā me te kaha i koutou atu i unga noa te tamaiti ki tona ruma "ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki to ratou whanonga." Otira ka whakamahi koe i tenei huarahi i roto i te tukanga o te whakatairanga i te tamaiti, te whakawhanake koe tona maramarama aronganui, whakaako aumauiui me te hīraurau hopanga a ia. Ano, ka faahohonu koe tou hononga ki tō tamaiti. Ka rite ki te hua, kua kite i ia e kore te mea e tika ana ki te hamama e rongo ki, rite noa koe J tuhinga More whai hua ka kitea e koe i runga i te expertbaby.ru tomokanga