Rave rahi tūtohutanga i runga i pehea ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ki te mea i reira he tamariki

Ka rite ki whakaaturia e tatauranga, e kore te mea tuatoru katoa hapu whai hoa, me te toru nga tau i ora ai, rēhitatia hoki whakarere. Ko te hunga e tino āwangawanga e pā ana ki te pātai nui o pehea ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ki te whai tamariki koe, Me ki mohio e i te wa nei raweketia te tukanga i runga ake te.

Hei riro noa i te mau ohipa moe tahi, kotahi anake hiahia anake i te tane ranei wahine. Ki te kahore i whakahaere i te whānau taitamariki ki te tiki mau o tamariki, kawea whakarere i roto rite hohoro rite taea.

Heoi, he tokomaha o te sex kaha e hiahia i roto i te pātai o te pehea, ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ki te mea i reira he tamariki. Mai i te wāhi o te tirohanga o te whaiwhakaaro ana i konei i reira e te tahi mau onäianei me whaktauiratia e matau townsfolk ohie ētahi wā e kore e taea te utu, na kia hiahia ratou āwhina ture ngaio.

Ko te āhuatanga hinengaro o te tukanga whakarere

Ngā kaimātai hinengaro tohutohu i roto i te whakahaerenga whakarere ki wareware e pā ana ki kare whaiaro, me te ki te faaohipa e pehi me te marino.

I roto i te whai whakaaro i te pātai o te pehea, ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ki te mea i reira he tamariki, he nui te reira ki te mahara te whai ake: i roto i tetahi take e kore e kia häpainga ki runga ki nga ngākau nuitanga o te whakamutunga. Hoki te tamaiti, whakarere matua '- ko te ahotea taua rite pakeke, a kore kia pāngia reira e tenei i roto i tetahi ara.

Na, ka tahuri tatou ki te taha mahi o te take. Me pēhea te ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ki te mea i reira he tamariki?

tukanga whakarere āhuatanga Ture

I roto i te take, te papa e kore e noa tukua whakarere kōti ina kua he tamaiti i raro i te tau o te tau kotahi te utuafare. Anake ka whiwhi pakeke te tamaiti, ka taea e te papa timata te whakahiato i tētahi take mō te whakarere. A ko reira nui ki te mōhio e te iriti ture no obliges ki te kawe i te tikanga i runga ake anake i roto i te marae.

kia haapapu te reira e me tuku te ina tohe papa ki te marae te wahi ora te hē. I roto i ētahi wā, ka taea e te faataaraa e i roto i te aroaro o ngā tamariki i roto i te tari ture, kei i te wahi o te noho o te whakawa. Whakarara ki tenei, whakatau te marae te pātai o herenga tiaki: he matua e te ora, motu ke i te tamaiti, ka hoatu ki a ia te tautoko pūtea noa tae ratou te tau o waru nga tau.

whakaritea e te pātai o te hunga e whai wāhi i roto i te mātauranga o ngā rangatahi i te anake i roto i te runga i o ratou hiahia me manakohanga e hāngai ana i runga i te mau huru maitatai morare o whaea me matua, me te te meka, i o ratou e taea ki te hanga pai tikanga ora mō ngā tamariki, a na i runga i.

Ki te hiahia koe ki te mohio me pehea nohopuku ki te whakarere i tana wahine, ko te taua te whakahoki: e taea te mahi i te reira i roto i te take te wahi i reira he kahore tamariki.

Ki a wai e te tamaiti i muri i whakarere ana matua '

Me mahara hoki käore te reira e i roto i nuinga o te wā, i muri i te whakarere i te tamaiti tonu ki te ora ki tona whaea, o te akoranga, ki te arata'i ia he ora tonu. Heoi, e kore e tenei tikanga e kore te papa e tango i tetahi wahi i roto i te ora o te tamaiti, ki te tiaki hoki ia, ka noho wa ki a ia, no te mea i hoatu te iriti ture no te hoa faaipoipo tika rite i roto i te whakatipu o te uri. Here faufaa rahi he 'ulungaanga whaiaro o whaea me matua, ara, te kaha ki te kitea te reo noa ki tetahi ki tetahi, ki te waihanga i ō rātou tamariki ake nga tikanga tino whakamarie mo te whanaketanga hinengaro, me te tinana, ara ahakoa te meka e ora motu ke tetahi matua i te tahi atu.