Me pēhea te ki te whakatau i te mate wairua

I muri i te raupapa o hupehupe i roto i te mara o te aroha, e rave rahi mau taata tino tīmata ki te fifili e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te kitea te mate wairua. Ki te whakaaro koe e pā ana ki te āhua o me te wahi ka tutaki ia tatou na metua, riro te reira mārama: kihai i enei tikanga pai te mooni nāianei. I muri i te katoa, e kore i whakaaro reira whakama ki te kia maheni ki te tangata taitama i roto i te taraka, i runga i te papa kanikani ranei ara i runga i te huarahi. I teie mahana, i runga i taea i tenei tikanga o te teití titau anake e te whaiāipo Aue anake. Na reira, maha rawa te take e te iwi tika e kore e matau ki te wahi ki te kitea te mate wairua. I roto i to tatou tuhinga ka tamata tatou ki te whakautu i tēnei pātai.

Miharo ki te kitea te mate wairua, whakaaro e pā ana ki ō rātou ake ngākau nuitanga, me te runaruna. Tino maha mai tahi iwi i runga i te pūtake o ngā ngākau nuitanga noa. Na reira, ki te toro auau koe i te whare hākinakina, kaukau kaukauranga, whare pukapuka, i tetahi akoranga, me te pera i runga i, titiro a tawhio noa, pea to koutou hoa vahi tata wiri te press ranei ako pikitia o ngā pūrerehua.

Ano, he mea kahore ngaro e hanga he rota o te korohū kei te i wāhi mahi. Na te whakaaro tetahi e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whakatau i tona hoa i te mahi. E kore matou e kite tonu ratou hoa takakau rite hoa pea, rite i runga i te wā e hanga e ratou he mahi pono ranei i pai nga whanaunga hoa. I roto i te tikanga ki te mohio ratou hoa i runga i te tahi atu i te ringa, e kore tamata ki te mahue i te momo o ngā rangatōpū: hakari, rōpū rangatōpū, pikiniki me pera i runga i. Pea ko reira konei e ka tetahi o koutou hoa kia whakakitea i roto i te mua o koutou i roto i te marama tino hou.

Ko tētahi atu kōwhiringa o pehea ki te kitea te mate wairua, he haerenga ki te hararei. Hei tauira, i runga i te taha o te moana mahana me te iwi wātea ngāwari atu haere ki te whakapā. He he, Heoi, he mōrea e taea te whakamutu te hononga pērā tika rite ngāwari me hohoro rite timata reira. Otiia, i reira he he ōrau tika nui o faaipoipo e tutaki ïa i roto i te hararei.

Ka taea hoki te maturuturu he tīwhiri ki o koutou hoa, me te whānau e ko reira he whakaaro pai ki te whakamōhio ki a koutou ki te tangata i te pai, me te pono. He tino pai kia rite ki mohio hou e whakawhirinaki tangata hoki nei rarā i a koutou tamariki aroha tenei kē.

Otiia pea te ara hou tino rongonui pehea ki te kitea te mate wairua piri, ko te Ipurangi. I teie mahana, ka taea e kitea e koe i te rota o faaipoipo e, tetahi ara ranei tetahi, ka tutaki mā te Tukutuku Ao Whānui: i runga i teiti pae, whatunga pāpori, kōrero ruma, Huinga, me te pera i runga i. Ko he pera rosy kore katoa. Ki te whakatau koe ki te kitea te aroha i roto i te Internet, ka ki etahi whānuitanga whai koe ki te kia rite mo te inoino.

takoto te ati rahi i roto i te rā tuatahi atu mariko. Tino maha riro te hui tuatahi me o muri, pera i roto i te wa o te kōrero mariko i roto i te tangata e taea te whakawhanake i tētahi tino ritenga te ahua tūturu o te interlocutor. Na reira, ki te e timata koe ki te whakakikī reta kōrero ki te tangata ngā, e kore tamata ki te wahia te hui tūturu, i roto i te kaupapa e kore e i pera kaha te inoino, a kihai i pai koe e te haamau'araa i to koutou wa i runga i reta kau.