Me pēhea te ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara

Te āhua e kia ai kupu poto māmā "pouri", e te tika ki he tokomaha kua hoatu ki te uaua nui. Na tino maha ārai ona ake whakapehapeha, te paku ki te ui tika mo te faaoreraa hara ranei. Na, ko te wa, me te tika ka mea, "au pouri ahau!" Ka taea e te reira te ora-whakaora mo tatou whanaungatanga ki te hunga i aroha. Otiia ki te hinaaro ore ngoikore ranei ui mo te faaoreraa hara maha hanga tauari kino i roto i te ora, whakangaro uniana me noa mau utuafare.

Ko reira uaua rawa ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara mo te hunga e whakamahia ana ki te ite tika katoa. Na te kitea iwi reira uaua ki te whakaae tona hara, a tae noa i roto i o ratou kanohi ake, e tamata ratou ki te whakatika i ana mahi. Ahakoa whakaaro ki sparvedlivosti, e ti'a ia tatou whakaae e te wa nui maro atu i ētahi atu i ratou. wheako rātou i te ati i roto, ratou e taea kupu ratou, engari e kore kawea ia ki te mea "au pouri ahau!" Atu i runga i te aha ratou e nehenehe e rave: riria tatou e kahore kino tupu, ka kia te kiriata āhuatanga.
E te tahi mau iwi e kore noa e mohio me pehea ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara, e kore e taea e kitea i nga kupu tika, me te whakaaro e mea te tahi mea i roto i o wahi anake pahuatia atu te āhuatanga.

Na me pehea e koe te ui tika mo te faaoreraa hara?

I te utuafare kaimātai hinengaro i te tikanga o toru "P": tenei whakaaro, te whakatau, me te hua.
Ka kōrero tatou atu e pā ana ki a ratou.

Ko te tuatahi "P" - he te tatarahapa tenei. tatarahapa mau - he tikanga matua mō te houhanga rongo. A, no te he reira, ka haere mai ki te kupu o te faaoreraa hara e ratou. Ki te taea e ki te whakaatu i te māramatanga o te tatarahapa, me ētahi atu kare tangata e koe - ka tou te faaoreraa hara e manakohia. Ko taea te faaoreraa fakamātoato ka reira te mea he wheako tahi o te tangata hara me te inoino.
Ko te tuarua "P" - te whakatau ki te farii i te hopoi'a no to ratou mahi. A, no te he otinga taua he, e kore te ngana te tangata ki te whakakahore ngatahi me akaapaanga ētahi atu. Ko te whakatau ki te tohe he Whakaatu e whai koe mana tonu ki runga i to ratou mahi, me otvechaeete mo ratou mahi.
Ko te toru o "P" - te hua hiahia ranei ki te whakatika i te āhuatanga. Hanga, kia rite ki te mea ratou, e taea e kore te papaki, engari he reira taea ki te whakatika i te heke mai. Ngā kaimātai hinengaro tohutohu tono mo te faaoreraa hara, ki te matapaki i te mahere o te mahi e pai te whakapai ake i te āhuatanga. Ka whakaatu ana tēnei e kore anake pouri mo tona hara ki, engari e hiahia ana ki te karo i te reira i roto i te heke mai.