Me pēhea te ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka aroha ki te tamaiti, te tangata

Ko nga kotiro waia ki, nga tangata e whakatinana te itoito, te rave'ae, te wairua tutu, kaha me te manawanui, me te wiwi o te aau, te oaoa, te roimata o te oaoa - e ko to ratou kainga tupu. O te akoranga, te reira katoa pono, a ano nga tamaiti taitamariki he tangata pakeke i roto i te ahua o nga hua o nga hiako runga ake-whakahuatia whakaarokore romance hiahia i roto i kanohi fakamātoato me taipitopito fakaofoofa ranei. Kua whakawhanakehia e te hapori whakaaro whāiti o te mea eé rite faaiteraa manene "knightly mahi", e taea te pānui i anake i roto i tales patupaiarehe. I roto i te meka e kore he pono tenei. Mua, ko te hawhe kaha o te tangata i te kawenga mō te hanga o kai me te tiaki o tona hapu i hoariri, i whakaaro nona wahine e pā ana ki te whakamarie o te kāinga, ka arahina te whare, a whakaarahia nga tamariki. Ko te aha ka haere te kotiro ki te tūranga o te "instigators" i roto i te whanaungatanga whaiāipo, e hanga he huru whaiāipo, te wahi takaro te tūranga o te kaimātakitaki tangata i te wa taua wāhi i roto i te tākaro.

Ka rite ki henehene faaite to ratou mau mana'o taata?

A, no te whakatau iwi tetahi ki tetahi, a i waenganui ia ratou he mura o te aroha, he taipitopito katoa o faufaa rahi. I te tahi taime e hiahia ana koe ki te mahara pūrākau pānui i mua hītori katoa, te wahi e mahi ana toa toa mahi hohore me titau ratou i raro i te taupoki o te po, i matau kotiro, me te lyrically pukorero o tona mana'o. I teie mahana, te mea te reira ki te whai i te archaism, engari i reira he he ara pono ki te korero e pā ana ki o koutou mana'o - te tuhituhi i te aroha reta ki te aroha taata.

I aroha haora wareware, engari ngakau nui taria tetahi rongo i te pono. I roto i te ao o te hangarau rorohiko ki te rongo i te reo taketake ranei whiwhi ka wātea i roto i te meneti torutoru te whakautu i tuhituhia, engari ka taea e tetahi mea whakakapi i te mau mana'o, ina tangohia koutou ki te ringa o te pepa o te pepa, me te pānui i te kupu i tuhituhia i runga i te ngakau. Ka riro te reira rawa pai ki te farii i te reta aroha ki te tamaiti i te tawhiti, i te aroaro o te hui, ka kiia nga meneti. Na, ki raro, ki te mahi.

Me pēhea te ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka aroha ki hoa?

Ko te matua kāhua nui mea, kia utua whakarongo kia motuhake ki te taipitopito. Ka taea e koe te tuhituhi te āhukahuka noa i runga i te whārangi pukatuhi me te hoatu i te reira i roto i te kōpaki paerewa, engari i roto i tenei take o te mate o te ātahu o te mahi taua. He mea tika ki te whiriwhiri i te hue pepa kore-paerewa, matotoru, me te pea rerekē. Ētahi tangata rawa impressionable i tahuri ki te whakapaipai i te reta aroha ki te hoa whakapiripiri rerekē i roto i te puka o ngakau me te angelkov. kia karohia tenei kia rite kore ki te pahua i te kau, me te kore e whakawehi i te hunga whiriwhiri.

Hei hoatu i ana kupu i te 'uhinga hītori me te tohu o te mau mana'o nui e tauturu i te waituhi. pene puna mahi pukapuka kalligrafichnymi kuputuhi me te hoatu i te titiro mātanga. mahi i mua i-tu i runga i te wahi mau o pepa, kia rite kore ki te hoatu i te piri i roto i te karere. Na, ka nga āhuatanga hangarau katoa o te whakaaro, ka taea e koe timata te tukanga tūturu o te tuhituhi.

Te hanga i tētahi taiao pai

I hanga te whakatau, a ka whakaae ia ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka aroha ki hoa e pā ana ki te aroha, ko te whakaaro e rere i roto i o toku ngakau, me te hiahia ki te tahuri i runga i te rorohiko me te tirohia, ki runga ki te maha kōwhiringa mō piki kuputuhi ki te haereraa āhuahanga. E kore e tino tika nga herepata, engari he pai ki te whakarere i tenei kaupapa, me te pūngao tika ki te faatupu i te varua pai. Tahuri i runga i tou waiata tino, tango i te tūranga whakamarie, mahara taime tino ahuareka pau tahi, whakaaro te mata o te kotahi i aroha a tamata hinengaro ki te pupuri i te kōrero ki a ia, korero e pā ana ki to ratou mau mana'o. Kia tangi te reira corny, a tae noa tipua, engari whakaatu mahi e mahi tonu enei tikanga.

I te tahi taime, i muri i te pakeke karanga purakau pukorero haupū te āwhina pati mahana ki hinu faufaa. Ko ia tangata e ratou ake tunu mo whakangā, te mea matua i awhinatia ia he wahine ki te tomo ki te āhua nehenehe roa o te au maite e te oaoa, a he pono rawa tenei, ina e hiahia ana koe ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka aroha ki te tamaiti i te tawhiti.

Ko ataahua i roto i nga kōrero

Kua kua tuhituhia e matou e kia kia tukinotia ki tokanga makehe ki taipitopito. Otiia ki te mea te aro mua i runga i te meka e kia pa ki te pepa, me te hoahoa o te kuputuhi wairua o te tangata aho tino whakatarapi, engari inaianei e korero tatou e pā ana ki te pai rerehua o te kotiro timata nei ki te mahi. He reta aroha ki te hoa - he tukanga tuhituhi auaha, me te wāhi mahi, me te rauemi tuhituhi kia tauturu i te kaituhi ki te faaite i to ratou mau mana'o. Karapotia koe ki nga mea ataahua, ka whakaaro āta pā ana ki te huinga tae o te pepa, ki te mangumangu, ia pohehe mana'o i roto i te au i te iho, e ka hoatu te pūkenga o tona pene.

He reta aroha ki te tamaiti, kahore hepohepo

He wā ka tae mai te hononga ki te raruraru, me te tūranga takaro e te pukapuka o te poti, te wahi e taea ringihia tetahi o nga hunga i aroha i tana wairua ki runga ki te pepa. I roto i taua kia he āhuatanga, me te kotiro kahore he nei tino o te tauutuutu i roto i nga tangata, a, maia ki te āhukahuka, whakatau ia ki te tuhituhi a ia i te pukapuka. He mea nui ki te mahara - hopu te tangata tonu te tuhipoka o hepohepo i roto i te kuputuhi, a taea ia whakawehi reira.

Te tane, nga taata ihora rapu mo te hoa te pai, he kaha, papau me i te wa taua wahine. Me waiho te reira taea ki te te tu atu te faahemaraa, ara, ki te tetahi o ratou e waiho i te reira. kia korero āhukahuka kuputuhi aroha o mana'o herekore mo ia, te hiahia ki te tautoko i te reira i roto i te āhuatanga e whai hua ana hoki ki a ia, o te mauruuru e te oaoa o te wahine, i karangatia e ia i taua kare. kia karohia kīanga ririki pērā i "No ahau tutaki koutou, e kore ahau e taea e moe! whakaaro ahau tonu o koutou, me te ruarua hēkona i mua tutaki matou! ". Kaha tika ki te whakahua i te hae ranei korero tōraro e pā ana ki te rōpū tuatoru i roto i te pukapuka - tenei tangata nui ketia katoa.

Te tinihangakore me kahore kīanga i faaiti i

Tangata, ahakoa te taata sentient taua, rite wahine, engari e kore e haafaufaa ore i to ratou maramarama. kīanga Hackneyed, rawa tuhaa i pai-mohiotia a tawhio noa te kura mahi tino a Tūrongo. kia whakaaro hoa aroha, ki te hiahia te wahine ki te hanga pārekareka o ia, a kihai nui ki te hamani tona āhukahuka. Kia ara meinga te reira ia hara.

kīanga

He aha e hiahia ana koe ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka ataahua? e kore te mea e tika ana mātauranga Philological. Ko te mea nui, ki te kaha faaite nehenehe whakaaro. kīanga Inarticulate kaua pana te interlocutor, kaua ki te āwhina i ki ia ite i te faufaa. He reta aroha ki te hoa kore e e taau mo te Pulitzer paraihe, engari te mea utu, he iti rite. tahuri wātea tųpuna, Light ki te katoa. Ko te mea matua ko te ki kia tinihanga me te iti ki te waimeha te kuputuhi o te whai kiko parau "hohonu o mana'o", "hongi tou kaki", "whiti kanohi" a na i runga i. e kore e ēnei kīanga titiro corny, engari ko tenei ka waiho taata faahiahia, me te heihei o.

reta ihotaata ore

Ko te tino kikokore tenei take, engari ko te reira i te wahi ki te kia, rite ki nga tangata, he ere toa, ahu ki te whakakahore i te aroha o whanoke whaiāipo ladylove. Kia waiho te reira i te mana'o i te tuhipoka aroha vahi i roto i te wahi papai, i reira te tangata o tona hoa tūpono tai'o. Tenei e taea e arahi ki te haama, i reira e mahi te tangata hē. Hei karo taua ta'efemahino'akí, pai whakakapi reira ki te ingoa o te īngoa aroha, engari e kore e ki te kia whai wāhi, "bunnies", "hiri" me "sweeties".

I te tahi atu te ringa, ka rite ki kī e Deyl Karnegi, katoa atawhai ki tona ingoa, me te aroha, ka puaki te reo ia. Hoki te wahine maia nei kahore ka whakamau wehi o ngā āhuatanga fakamā, me he rite mo tetahi putanga o ngā, he reira angamaheni ki tahuri ki te ingoa aroha. Ko te mea matua ko te ki te tuhituhi i te reira tika (te kupu o te take mai ke), kia rite ki te kore ki te titiro kuware.

Ka rite ki te wahi ki te taata ki te tuhituhi ia he pukapuka?

I te tahi taime e kore i whakaritea te hononga ki te whakawhanake tonu i, a ka hiahia iwi ki titaria, ki te hanga i ētahi atu iwi hari. Me pēhea te ki te tuhituhi i te pukapuka aroha ki te taata ki nei e hiahia ana koe ki te mutu i te hononga? Tuatahi, he mea e tika ana ki te tākaro i roto i te mahara o te taime pai katoa i hono koutou. I muri i te katoa, ka haere he kore mea katoa, i reira nga ra ka i hari tahi koutou. I roto i te reta he mea e tika ana ki te whakahua i a whakawhetai te tangata mo te mea kua meatia e ia mo koutou. I roto i tenei āhuatanga, he reta aroha ki te hoa - he tauira ki te whai! whai ana tēnei tohu te ki te waiho i te haamana'oraa māfana o te kotiro.