He aha ki te kōrero ki te taata: Tips

He io me wehi ki te mea i runga i te mea he maha ngā kōtiro i te rā tuatahi. Ka taea e te oaoa wareware katoa e pā ana ki korero ki te taata. He puku rite hara'o'o o ia rite talkativeness nui. I roto i tenei āhuatanga, te mea tino nui - he ki te kohikohi ana whakaaro, wātea me te whakaaro e pā ana ki te meka e kua ui ia kē koe i runga i te rā, tika hoki koutou, e te tikanga koutou me o koutou pakaritanga me ngā ngoikoretanga rite ia!

I roto i te whānui, maha e whakarahi kotiro te faufaa o te rā tuatahi. A akono reira me te mea he tina i te fare whenua anake ki te motuhake toto puru. Ko te hape nui tenei. I muri i te katoa, te tuatahi o te katoa e hiahia ana tatou ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whai i te wa pai, ara, ki te meatia e koutou tetahi mea ki tenei taata e kore e mahi.

Me pēhea te ki te tikanga i runga i te rā? Me pēhea te ki te kōrero ki te taata?

Ko te mea tino nui - he reira ki te ite i to outou pai. Na ka ka mărû koutou me te māia i roto i ona irresistible, me te kore mutu ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea ki te kōrero ki te taata. I muri te katoa, ka tāpiri whakawhirinaki-whaiaro humarie tetahi whakahaere, a ka i roto i tahuri katoa i tahaki. Na reira, nehenehe a whakamarie kia kakahu mo te rā.

Kia ahau. Kaua e tamata ki te whakaatu i te kotahi e kore e koutou. Kaua e tamata ki te mea pai. O te akoranga, kahore ārai koe ki te whakaatu atu ratou whakatutukitanga ki te tangata taitamariki. Engari kia tupato e kore ki te kino ia aitua ranei whakaititia ia.

O te akoranga, e hiahia ana nga taata ki te hei i runga i runga. Play me ia, kata ki ona ngahau, kia he haapoupouraa. Ko giggling heahea, whakakini te katoa wa ogle kore he e tika ana. Te kore e ngaro hohoro te reira i te moni i roto i a koutou.

Ako ki te whakarongo āta. Tenei e te āwhina kōrero koe ki te takatu. Te tangata e aroha he interlocutors whakaaro, me tangata kahore rawa ngutu.

He aha ki te kōrero ki te taata, a he aha pai ki te noho puku?

Māmā - ko ki te kōrero e pā ana ki o koutou ngākau nuitanga noa. A te whai ratou koutou, o te akoranga. I muri i te katoa, ko koe i runga i te rā. Na ka tahuri te marama whakahaere me te ngāwari hoki e rua o koutou.

He kē ohie - ki te matapaki i te mau ohipa i tupu ki a koutou i tenei ra. Kaua e korero ki ahau te wa katoa e pā ana ki a ratou ano. A ani i pā ana ki reira: me pehea ko tona ra, i i ngā i te mahi whare wānanga ranei.

Hiahia i roto i a ia, mahere tona ora, me te hiahia. Ka waiho tenei kaupapa o te moni ki a koutou, ka ki a ia. aroha nga tangata ki te kōrero e pā ana ki a ratou ano, a ka ako koe te mea e hiahia ana ia i te ora, a ahakoa taua mea he hototahi ki o koutou hiahia.

Ko reira ngā ano ki te matapaki i te kiriata hou ahua, he pukapuka rōpū puoro ranei. A haamata ki te kōrero e pā ana ki o ratou mana'o o te kiriata, me o koutou iwi taitamariki e tiki ake te whakahaere.

Kaua e amuamu e pā ana ki tona ora. No tetahi he hiahia i roto i ngā raruraru o te tahi atu mau taata. Tera pea ka rongo ia ki a koe. Otiia anake i roto o te peu maitai. Na te huru e pahua ia koutou mo te tino.

Kore tatou e ui ia pātai whaiaro. Ko te tikanga, panuku ki nga kawa e whai ake nei, no te pā ana ki te takatu:

- raruraru o tetahi āhua (e rua moni, me te hauora);

- te kōrero tupu o to koutou ora;

- hononga ki ex-hoa;

- te ora whaiaro, mau hapehape raruraru o koutou hoa tahi ranei.

Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakawhiti kōrero mō ki te taata e te haere ki te utu mo koutou tina i roto i te wharekai. Ahakoa, ki te he rawa āwangawanga e pā ana ki tenei take a koutou. E kore e whakaatu te reira koutou i ona pai.

e kore he utu reira aha ki te kōrero ki te taata i runga i te rā tuatahi, no te mea he reira he taairaa piri. O te akoranga, tata teiti takatu katoa waewae ki hoki reira. Ko te mea e hiahia ana koe i roto i te huru e māhorahora i roto i te ahiahi ki te kia mārama ai ki a ia, ina koe rite ki te neke ki te hononga atu tupu koutou.

Ka taea e koe te korero ki a ia: "whakapono ahau e te tata hononga i waenganui i te tangata me te wahine e taea e anake ka e pai nui ki te mohio tahi i te tahi ratou."

O te akoranga, tupu te reira e kia puta hiahia tata tonu. Ko he reira pai ki te tatari i te moka ki te tiki ki te mohio ki a ia pai. I te iti rawa hoki te whakaaro o te whaiaro tiaki-. Tonu to tatou ao, - he mea kino hoki te kotiro pakarukaru, te wahine whakatarapi.

I roto i te meka, rite ki te mea koutou hoa ta, ka taea e koe te ako i te rota e pā ana ki a ia. Hei tauira, he mea nui kia, rite kōrero ia e pā ana ki tona ex-kaumeá. Whakarongo, pea ha'aho e mea ia e pā ana ki a koutou.

Kei te tono tonu koe koe, me pehea ki te ako ki te kōrero ki te takatu? Waiho i te feaa, me te papû ore! whakatakotoria tenei katoa i roto i a koutou i te natura. Kia reka, ngawari, wahine, me te māia. Whakarongo te tangata, paanga i roto i ia, me tona angitu, ka whiwhi koutou katoa!