Tane Kiss Tuatahi

Ko te kihi tuatahi ki te taata titiro whakamua ki tata tetahi kotiro. I te wa ano e tika ana ki te kore o te wheako, mana'o ia manukanuka, whakaongaonga me te manukanuka: he aha ki te kore e rite ki te taata te kihi ranei e kore e kawea ia pai tetahi?

He tokomaha e whai ki te tohutohu o atu hoa mātanga, me te ngana te tangata ki te rapu kōrero i roto i ngā pukapuka, ngaahi makasini te Internet ranei. Ki te whiwhi taua mōhiohio, ka waiho i te reira tino whai hua hoki e kore te kihi tuatahi ki te taata i kawea mai te oto. E maere ia, ka kawea e rua mōrahi pai. tupu te reira i taua, me te taata kihi te tuatahi, ka pera ka hoki te wa roa e kore i taea te whakatau i te reira ki runga i te reira. I roto i tenei take, ko te mea e tika ana ki te tango i te kaupapa i roto i o ratou ringa, a ka kihi te matauranga o te toi he tino taonga noa.

Na roto i te kōwhiri i te taata ki nei e hiahia ana koe ki te kihi, me kia whakatata rawa tino. Best o katoa, e ko te reira he tangata tino, he taata e whakawhirinaki koe tino. I muri i te katoa, ka whakawhiti koe kihi ki huware, me te hunga papapūata katoa e kitea i roto i reira.

I mua kahore e te kihi kai kai e taea pahua i te mana'o (rite karika ranei aniana) paowa ranei. kia manawa hou, te kore te taata noa e kore e hiahia ana ki a koe kihi me te ngana ki te whakaoti hohoro tenei, "he tukanga kino." Ki te taea, taitai koutou niho, i te iti rawa te kawe ki a koutou mō ngā take pēnei kapia ranei.

Ka rite ki te wa tuatahi ki te kihi te taata? Ki tenei mutunga, e kore te mea e tika ana ki te pumau, ko reira e tika ana, i runga i te anga ke, wātea me te whakawhirinaki ratou ake mana'o. Kaua e manukanuka , ka e kore whakaaro e pā ana ki te āhua o te tupu mea. e kore e hiahia ana koe ki te hohoro, te kore aituä koe ki te puku niho e tino mamae.

Mahi katoa āta, me te māia te, e pa ana ngutu i te raro te ngutu o runga ranei. Na, pato i te reo o ana ngutu. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te kaha ngāue ki pahua mea katoa. I roto i te reo kihi tuatahi i roto i te whānui ko reira pai kore ki te whakamahi i, no te mea te kihi tiki rawa mākū. Engari me whakatau reira ia mo ia - rite rite koe. kia te ngutu paku hou, me te ngāwari. Na ka tiki koe atu pai. Ki te te e maroke ngutu, ka obliznite ratou. kia ngawari, me te aroha te kihi tuatahi ki te taata.

Ko te houhou ki te whakamahi i te kihi te reira i lipstick ranei ngutu mōhinuhinu, no te mea ka whai i te taata ki te mitimiti i te reira, a ka au koa ahau e he reira mārama e kore e. I tua atu, he hoki reira ki runga ki te kihi mauiui ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki tenei pikipiki.

Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakaaro o te hunga kihi pai ranei, e kore e, he pai ki te aro i runga i nga sensations me whai ngahau: e kore kōpeke ngutu, me te arero kaha kore ki te pumau. Ko te kihi tuatahi ki te mahi taata pai ki tuwhera o koutou kanohi: rite whakatika reira he tikanga o te whakawhirinaki, me te kia koe e mohio ki a ia e kore ko ia tau'a ki a koutou.

Ki te kore koe e whakapono i roto ia ratou, a e wehi ki te kawe i ngā kawenga mo te kihi tuatahi, hanga ana e ia te tikanga ki te whakawhirinaki i te taata - te nuinga pea, ka waiho reira māia ake a ka angitu.

E rave rahi mau taata i roto i te tikanga ki te ako pehea ki te kihi, kua whakaakona i runga i ngā kaupapa ngā. Fantasy kupu mahi rerekē. Te tangata e whakamahia ana hoki tenei kaki whakaaro pounamu. Hiahia whakatika puawai atu kihi whaiāipo. Etahi e whakamahia i runga i te karaka aho e here ana. Train, o te akoranga e kore te mea e tika ana,. Ko te mea matua - te psychologically whirihora reira tika ano, ite māia, e kore e taata whakamā. I roto i te tauahi kihi whakarongo ia ki te pehea o ratou mana'o: korero ratou ki a koutou te mea ki te mahi i muri.

Kihia mo te wa tuatahi - e te aha e mahara he rota o te iwi toku ora katoa, kia ngana ki te hanga i te reira i te kotahi fakangalongata'a. Me kia aroha te tangata me te aroha, ka ka kia atu ngākau, me te rerekē te kihi. Ko reira te aroha e haapuai i to tatou mau mana'o, te ora taonga, me te ngā.