Ētahi kōtiro rite eé?

stereotype Paerewa e ki te kotiro nui i te ahua ātaahua, mata pretty ka hoatu ki runga ki te kaiwaea kakahu ki te tiki i tetahi taata ki kahore tohenga pai. Maoro ranei i muri mai, ka timata te wahine ki taua waiaro ki te ite e kore e taea te tutuki i te hononga kaha pai, me katoa e taea e ia te tatau - he hononga mō te kotahi te po.

A, no te ia te mutunga kua kite i roto i te mea kotiro rite eé Kei te faaruru i te reira i te ru iti. Huri i te reira i roto i e kore te mea pera ngāwari katoa, a he tokomaha o te hunga kotiro tino kore e whakaaro rite whakataetae, i roto i te meka, whai atu tūponotanga ki te marena te tangata o ona moe.

Ko te mea, ko te e kore te ahua ko te tohu matua i nei whiriwhiri tangata tona hoa, ina tae mai te reira ki te hononga nui. Ko te ōwehenga o te nama i roto i te wahi tuatahi i reira ko te tikanga o te whakamarie i runaruna tahi, he tikanga o te noho pai i roto i te kōrero me te whakawhirinaki tahi. E kore tenei tikanga e tonu kia kia atamai te kotiro, tika e kia hanga e ia te ora te tangata taitamariki pai, e kore kino, me te ahua whai wāhi anake i roto i te ra wawe o te teití.

Mō pehea ki te whakatutuki i te huru taua i roto i te hononga, i reira e rerekē ngā o tirohanga. Tonu e kore e mohio ki ta kotiro rite eé: rite ki a ratou, ranei hurihia rawa ritenga ki a ratou. whiwhi ana te takirua rerekē i roto i ngā huarahi rerekē. Na te ngaro i konei he ohie. Me Guy te kotiro nei e kīnaki ana paruparu, me te haapapu kaha. Na kia waiho te tahi mea rite ki reira, a i roto i te tahi mau rave'a strikingly rerekē.

Na te pātai tonu, etahi kotiro pai eé, e kore e ka kitea te whakahoki. Tei mea katoa i runga i te tangata taitamariki takitahi. Ki te mea ia he kaha whakaaro tātari, engari ko ia tino rawakore i roto i mau ohipa kāinga, ka hinga ia tino i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro e mauruuru iwi e mohio ki te hanga whakatau mātau arorau, a kahore e ngaahi ngāue faka'apí meinga ia tetahi raruraru. Ki te, Heoi, hoki e waiho tona ora te tahi mea nui, e taata e ite ngoikore i roto i te hononga, me ka he hē o te mahi whare ia, e kore e taea te karohia ngaahi kākā i runga i te tutu kāinga.

O te akoranga, e kore e taea te kitea tika taua kōrero, na te wā tuatahi o te pātai dating, he aha e kore e pera nui atu i te pātai o te mea e kore ratou e rite kotiro rite eé. ngāwari i taea e ia whakawehi atu te tangata taitamariki, no te tuatahi tutaki matou, ara ki te he tino tika hoki ia atu ratou. Ko e tika ana ki te meka i to tatou whanaunga he mana'o apiapi tenei. Kei te whakapono te reira e ko te reira e tika ana ki te hanga i te rangatira i ranei he uwha ranei te wahine-feliliuaki, a ano, enei takatu kāwai kore e taea e tika tu, no te kore te mea te reira i te topa, engari he hononga nui.

Whakaaro ki runga, e hiahia ana aha kōtiro eé He tokomaha nga wahine meinga te hape o te whakamahi i te tauira noa, e hiahia tika ki te kia kanapa, me te kanohi-hopu. I roto i te meka, ki te "kiore hina" ara atu tūponotanga hopu i te taata i roto i ona ringa. Ko tenei e tika ana ki te meka e, te tuatahi, te mātakitaki i te wahine kanapa, he tamaiti iti te au, wehi o te kore. Tuarua, mo te wahine taua ka tonu i ki te whawhai, a ka titau te reira i te utu nui o te pūngao, me te, i roto i te oma roa iho, ka i roto i, hōhā. Me te taata i te kotiro nei e aroha anake ia ka hoatu ki a ia he tikanga o te ata noho - teie mau huru kite ia i roto i te wahine i tautohetia. A i roto i te "kiore hina", ka taea e kite ia te tahi mea e kite kahore tetahi atu, me e ka hoatu koa ki a ia anake.

O te akoranga, katoa o tenei e kore te auraa e hiahia ana koe ki te pahua i tō ahua ranei te taka akeake. Heoi, i mahara hoki he aha te kōtiro rite eé Ka taea e koe te karo i te hape runga. noho Just koe, a ka he mohio ki te kitea e te tangata taitama nei e tohatoha koutou i roto katoa ia koutou, a ka aroha koutou anake!