Aku tamariki. Me pēhea te ki te whakaara i te tamaiti tino?

Ko te raruraru o matua me ngā tamariki i whakatutehu te wairua o nga hapu aroha. e hoatu ngā mātua i te pātai wahangu: "tamariki, me pehea ki te whakaara ? koutou i roto i te ara tika". Te tangata e hiahia ana ki te hei i te tuatahi-whanau kua riro te paearu, ataahua e kore e anake, engari ano hoki i te hinengaro. I mua, ko reira obschepopulyarno whai te whakaaro o te kuia whakaaro nui, engari e kore te ao e tonu tu, me e rapu maha whaea taitamariki mō whakautu hou ki tenei pātai tonu. He nui o ngā rauemi mo te whakatipu tika o te tamaiti pehia ki nga whata katoa o bookstores, engari tonu tonu te pātai: "Me pēhea te e hiahia ana ki te whakaako ratou tamariki, me te aha kia whakaakona ratou i te tamarikitanga?". I runga i tenei take i tenei ra, a ka mahi matou.

ora ia peehia te tamaiti, a ti'a ia tatou ia tīmata tuatahi o katoa ki tatou. E mau ki te titiro i tatou tika, ka whakahoki i te pātai e whai ake: "? A he aha ahau i ahau ahau he tauira mo koutou tamaiti aha pai ahau whakaako taea ia i te tauira". ka whakamārama te reira i te āhuatanga, me te ka matau koutou, i runga i te mea atu kia mahi. A feruri i runga i te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te kite i to koutou tamariki pehea ki te whakaara ratou huru pai anake. Kia hoki ratou he pai tauira ki te whai! e kore e roa i roto i te haere mai i te hua.

Ko te wāhi matua o te mātauranga whai hua o te tamaiti, ko te ki te whai i te-tata te, te utuafare hari, me te fakahoko. Katoa e hiahia ana koe - he ki te whakaora e kore anake koutou uniana ki tana tane, engari ano hoki whangai tonu tou faaipoiporaa ki te aroha, māramatanga tahi, whakawhirinaki, a, o te akoranga, te whakaute hoki tahi i te tahi. Tahi, ka hanga e koe pēpi huru mahana o te kāinga, te whānau tino, te tautoko tahi, ka whakakiia te whare he koreutu, o te aroha me te rangimarie o te hinengaro. mātauranga tano o tamariki - te kī ki te heke mai angitu o tō pēpi. hiahia katoa tamaiti ki te kite i to ratou mau metua hari, me te aroha. I roto i tenei whare e hiahia ana ahau ki te hoki mai ano, a ano. ka tauturu i te kotahitanga koutou pānga pōrewarewa ana hanga koutou utuafare pai, no te mea ka riro te reira i te tauira o koutou, ana matua hoki ia.

Kaua rawa e tono pēhanga ki te tamaiti, a kahore e haere matara rawa. He mea tino nui ki a ia mo ongo'i ratou ake faufaa me realizovanna. He mea tika ki te faatura i te whakaaro o te tamaiti, ara, ki te ko ia e ono, ka "kihai i ia ano mohio e pā ana ki te ora." Koe - tona rangatira kaitohutohu, koutou - tona tautoko o koutou - tona tangata tino aroha, me te aroha. A ko reira i a koutou kei te tatari ia mo te whakamoemiti. Homai ki a ia te whai wāhi ki te ite rite te pakeke, a kore e whai koe i tetahi raruraru ki te tau rorirori o te tamaiti. Katoa e hiahia ana ratou - ko ki whakapumautia ano me ki te mahi i te katoa tupu-ake. tama tiaki tamariki - he mahi uaua. Otira ka mohio ki a koutou ia hei pakeke, ia noa e kore e hiahia ana ki te haere i roto i te noa'tu o koutou, whakamatautau to ratou tika ki te ora i te ora pakeke.

Tamariki, tamariki. Me pēhea te ki te kawea mai a koutou? Ko tētahi atu matamata - whakamoemiti, me te whakamoemiti ano. e kore e tika te haere ki tawhiti rawa, no te mea he pai-tika ana te whakamoemiti, me te kia kia tika. Me mahi tatou na e hiahia te tangata ki te kia hari ki te mahi i te tahi mea atu i te taumata ta'oto. Hoki tenei e hiahia ana matou i te mana o te kupu atawhai. Ki te whakamoemiti koe tou tamaiti, ka mahi koutou tetahi iti moka atu ngahau, atu koa, atu atawhai me te mauruuru. He rite ki te mahi i mahi pai hoki te whakamoemiti o te tangata katoa. Riterite, ki te whakamoemiti koutou mahi e, tupu koe parirau, me te hiahia ki te whai wa i muri ki te mahi i te tahi mea i nga wa pai, me te pai. Ko e tika ana ki te meka i ite e koe tou mahi arotakea tika tenei. Fakatatau ki ai, kei te mohio koutou.

Kia mahara ai koutou taonga - ko koutou tamariki enei. Me pēhea te ki te whakaara a ratou - e kore raruraru. Ko te mea matua - te whai ana instincts whaea, a ka wero ratou mau faaotiraa tika. Ngā manaakitanga ki a koutou, whaea aroha!