Tips i runga i pehea ki te matau, ahakoa rite koe te taata e kore ranei

Pātai o nga kotiro, "E koe ko eé rite" puta tino pinepine. Tenei, hei tauira, ka taea e koe te ui tika ia. ui ranei te uiraa taua, engari i roto i te tangata o tona hoa tata. I roto i te poto, i reira he kōwhiringa. Ko pehea e koe e mohio ranei rite koe te taata e kore ranei?
He tohutohu torutoru

Mahino koe ka kitea i roto i te pehea ki a koe te tangata taitama herehia, te āwhina etahi tohutohu me ngā kitenga:

1. Te kōrero atu ki a ia. Na ka whakahoki te pātai: "fifili ahau ranei tenei kōrero, ? Nei to tatou aho noa"
2. Whakarongo ki tou ngakau. ahakoa te patua e te reira rahi me te ake maha i roto i te puka o "ahanoa." Ki te ae, i te taata tiaki koutou e pā ana ki.
3. Hui a ia, ngaro koe i te kaha o te kupu. Ranei, hei kōrero, tīmata koe ki te kōrero rawa nui (e ko te, mahi i te mea e kore koe e ahu ki te).
4. Ki te hoa, me i mohio tīmata tonu te whakahaere e pā ana ki reira. Reira e kore tonu e taea e matau koe i roto i tetahi ara, ahakoa rite koe te taata e kore ranei, engari nga mea katoa a tawhio noa ko reira mārama: i reira he aroha.
5. Tonu hiahia i roto i tona runaruna, ngā ngākau nuitanga, reka (he aha te ahua o te waiata whakarongo ia, aroha whutupaoro ki te aha ana kiriata tino me te rite). Na ka whakataurite ratou ki tou ranei ki te pai o e moemoea koe. Hei tauira, whakarite, he aha titiro rite te takatu mahi koe i te kiriata, me te meka e aroha ia, e hiahia ana ahau kia kite ki a ia.
6. mai ia ki a koutou, he mea moemoea i roto i. Ko te tohu kua tuhia e koutou feruriraa ia ta'oto e pā ana ki a ia tenei.
7. hiahia tamau ki te rongo me te kite ia ia. Te kore reira, te mahue koutou, e kore e kitea e koe he wahi mo ia. hopoi mai te whakaminenga ki a ia he ataata, he tikanga o te hari whakakiia te wairua.

Whakatauritea koutou mana'o ki te āhuatanga i runga. Tenei ka waiho i te kupu whakahoki ki te pātai "pehea koe e mohio ranei rite koe te taata e kore ranei." Ki te hāngai tahi mea katoa - i reira he aroha.

Me pēhea te ki te tikanga kotiro ki te taata e pai
Pea te whakahaere ki te mahino hopoia e te kotiro, ano te taata. Ka rite ki ia e arahi nei ia? He aha ngā mahi he pai ki te karo. E rave rahi o te taunakitanga i roto i tenei whakaaro:

1. Koe hoki reira - he mea homai noa. Tikanga i roto i te ara taua i hiahia tonu ia ki te tiki i to koutou aro. Kaua e tamata ki te pai. Tenei kia whakangaromia tonu moni. Akuanei pea i reira ko te ongo e me roaa kōrero ki a koutou.
2. Rave i te tahi e ka kukume tona aro.
3. Kaua rawa ware. e kore e rite eé (rite, te mea, me wahine).
4. Kia mau ki te mea ngaro. kahore ia me mohio koutou whakaaro katoa e pā ana ki reira. Karangatia i roto i te kiriata - mea ki te ataata ahakoa pai: "Pea, ka kite tatou."
5. I te tahi taime mai ki te matau e ko koe e kore anake pai ia. Ko tenei, i muri katoa, ko Mark tona, no te mea ia - koutou whiriwhiri.
6. Kia taea ki te wero. Hei tauira, ka mea e kore e taea ki te riro o koutou ngakau tetahi o nga tamariki. Ka meinga tenei he hiahia ki te whakamatau i a ia he kaha noa taua.
7. I te tahi taime e ngoikore. Homai aroha ite rite korero me te tautoko.
8. Kaua e wehi ki te mea "e kore." E noho i te. Ki te kore e e rite te tahi mea, i whai koe i ētahi atu mahere mo te ahiahi ranei - tika mea. E koe te tika ki te whai i te whakaaro me te take whaiaro.

I roto i te mutunga
I roto i te take o te aroha e te nuinga o kahore arorau. Ko ki te mahi te tahi mea he tonu taea. Me pēhea koe e mohio ranei rite koe te taata e kore ranei, a me pehea ki te tikanga i roto i te take, ki te rite ia koutou, te tauturu tohutohu o kaimātai hinengaro, hoa, me ratou ake kitenga o te āhuatanga.