I nga hui marena, taea kite koe i te rota o taime mo, me te motuhake. Hei tauira, te utu o taitamariki mowhiti marena me te oati ataahua o te piripono. Hoki rave rahi marama, nga taka matatini mo te marena e whai mau metua i te hoa faaipoipo a muri e tika, me te tautoko tūturu. Ahakoa ka i roto i whanaunga tupu te tahi mau rerekētanga, he ngāwari ratou wareware. A te wa e haere i mua marena-arepurepu manavasii, he reira he whakanui marena, rite ki te tikanga, i raro i tona mana ake. I te pae hopea e tata tatou he tino pa kau ina e hiahia ana i te wahine marena hou me te tane ki te faaite i te mauruuru ki te matua ngakautia mo mea katoa i mea ai ratou mo ratou i roto i to ratou oraraa. He tokomaha ngaro e i tenei wāhi, me te e māharahara. Ētahi iwi tika e kore e mohio ki ta kia mauruuru ki ngā mātua. Kei te matau te reira e te mea matua - ki te korero i te reo o koutou ngakau. kia faaite kupu o mauruuru ki ngā mātua koutou aroha hoki ratou, he mahara ki e kua awhinatia e ratou, ka tautoko koe, ka hoatu e tohutohu. kia whakawhetai koe ratou mo te mea e ratou ko reira koutou matua, a reira nga mea pai, ka aroha huri noa te ao.
Ngā mihi ki ngā mātua, o te akoranga, ka taea e koe te whakarite i roto i mua, engari tika koutou e taea e whakawhirinaki i runga i tou aravihi o korero, me te Spicer. pupuri Just i roto i te ngakau e i roto i te momeniti whakaongaonga kore e taea e tino akakoromaki i to ratou kare me mau mana'o. Kitea rawatia ake, ka waiho koutou tino uaua ki te whakapuaki i te kaha me te hohonu o to ratou mauruuru, me te aroha? Ko te aha te mea te reira e minaminatia ki te faaineine. Haunga te oaoa e kia hakari i roto i tetahi take i roto i to koutou kupu. Anake e kore e te reira te tikanga e hiahia ana koe i te kupu rite ki te pānui i te puka. Ka taea e kuputuhi tā faaere koutou korero i te pono me te kătahi katoa. Rite kupu i roto i te mua ko reira e tika ana ki te tamau aau. Kaua e manukanuka, e kore e taea e koe te tā i te wheako faahiahia te kuputuhi rite rite whakaritea. I muri i te katoa, te oaoa tūturu, rite ki te tikanga, ka meinga ratou whakatikatika ahuareka, a ka hua koutou kupu i roto i ara atu tinihangakore.
O te akoranga, kia tangohia ki pūkete etahi tūtohutanga whakawhetai nga matua. Kia korero, me te tane me te wahine marena hou, no te mea he ratou tetahi ki te ra, a na reira te whakatau i te hiahia o rua. Kaua e wareware e hiahia ana koe ki te faaite i to tatou mauruuru ki te mau metua, e kore anake tona ake, engari ana matua, me te hawhe tuarua. He mea nui kia mau koe wareware tenei wa, te inoino katoa me te pōhēhē, ki te tetahi i roto ia koutou. Tō marena - he wāhi nui ki te tīmata i te hou, whakaute, me te au maite whanaunga ki ngā mātua o te wahine.
Te kōwhiri i ngā kupu ki te whakawhetai te mau metua, ngana ki te karo i ngā kīanga nunui rawa, whakamahi te kuware pai me nga kupu ngangahau. Nice ki ngā i roto i to koutou kupu haamana'oraa poto o te tamarikitanga, kōrero ahuareka e pā ana ki o ratou matua. Kaua e wehi ki te e whakanuia rawatia tou afaro, no te mea ko rite tenei te kau i te mea e tino tika ana. Pea to koutou kupu e pa kia nui to koutou, me te Dads e kore e taea e ratou ara pupuri ratou roimata, a reira he tino kahore ki te manukanuka.