Me pēhea te ki te waiho i te mālohi, me te ngāwari ki te whiwhi te mea e hiahia ana koe

rite tatou katoa ki te tiki ki ta tatou e hiahia. e kore ahau e mohio i te tangata kotahi nei e kore e hiahia ana i te reira. Otiia me pehea e taea te whakatutuki tatou i tenei? whakamahi tatou katoa ra katoa whakapono. Ahakoa, ki te koutou te mahi i te reira pohehe. Whiwhi i tetahi e hāngai koutou whakaritenga, e wahi i roto i te whānuitanga o ngā horopaki. Ka taea e koe te riria koutou aroha tetahi, rangatira, hoa, ki te korero ki te kupu papû i roto i te whakaaturanga ranei. Ahakoa o te horopaki i roto i nei whakamahi koe koutou mana o te taparuraa, i reira e te tahi mau rautaki whai hua e e te tauturu ia koe ngāwari te tiki te mea e hiahia ana koe.

1. Me whakarato e koe tou "whakarongo" Kei te rite te mea e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarongo ki

au e mōhio kua rongo koutou katoa i te parau, "He aha te i roto i reira hoki ahau?". mohio ana ahau e te nuinga o koutou e kite i tenei paratarafa, whakaaro te taua ano hoki ahau. Ko ko reira āhuatanga o iwi katoa. Tatou i te reira: ko tatou katoa i te natura te iti siokita. A ki te kore e te tahi mea hanga to tatou oraraa pai to tatou i te oaoa ranei, e kore e tuatahi i matou hiahia. Na reira, ki te riria koutou "whakarongo" (ahakoa he reira kotahi tangata 1000 ranei), e hiahia ana koe ki te mea te mea te mea i roto i ona ngākau nuitanga. E kore e taea e koe te arotahi tika ki runga ki a koe, ki te kahore he hiahia o nga atu tangata. Ki te arotahi koe i runga i te āhua o ki te āwhina i ia te whakatutuki i ona hiahia me ngā wawata, ka waiho ia rite ki te āwhina ia koe i roto i te hoki.

2. E kore rawa nui huringa e tono

Iwi e pipiri e kore anake, me te tokomaha atu e mangere rawa. Te tangata i hoatu e whakataunga Tau Hou o ki te ngaro taimaha, haere i runga i te kai hauora, me te mahi hākinakina, e matau pehea uaua ko reira ki te taui i to ratou mau peu, me te āhua noho. Ano, he nui māmā ki te huri i tō whakaaro i runga i nga mea ohie, i te whakapono hohonu (karakia ranei manakohanga tōrangapū) iwi. kia kōrero koe ki tētahi minenga maha nga wa i mua i ka hiahia ia ki te whakaaro te huri waiaro whanonga ranei.

3. E koe ki rite koutou "whakarongo"

A feruri na e kei roto i te toa taonga koe, ka whiriwhiri i te sofa hou. pai ki a koutou i te kaiwhakahaere hoko, me te tīmata i te aparauraa. Kua hanga e koe kua te whiriwhiri, engari ko tino hōhā te kaihoko koe. whai ia koe a tawhio noa te toa, me te korero ta'etuku. Ahakoa, ki te mea kua ka kē koe i te kāri nama ki te utu mo te hoko, tūponotanga he, e hoatu ki runga ki a koutou te whakaaro, ki te anake ki te tiki atu i te kaihoko hōhā. ai ara tamata koe ki te kitea tetahi atu taonga e hokona te taua sofas.

Ki te kore koe e rite to koutou "whakarongo", e kore e hoko iwi he aha korero koe ki a ratou. Na, kia tahuri mai, me te hoa. whakaaro wā katoa te mana'o hanga koe i runga i ētahi atu.

4. Hanga koutou "whakarongo" whakawhirinaki koe

E pōti koe mo te kaitono tōrangapū, kihai nei i whakawhirinaki? E tuku moni koutou moni ki te hoa, ki te ratou whakaaro e kore ia e hoki ratou ki muri? kore o te akoranga! Māmā ki te riria iwi, ki te ratou whakawhirinaki koe. Ko kotahi take he aha te kaiwhakataki TV pai-mohiotia Opra Uinfri kua he "pa koura" tenei. Ki te taunaki e ia he pukapuka o tona whakarongo, reira riro tonu te bestseller. Te aha? Ae, no te mea ratou whakawhirinaki Oprah. whakawhirinaki ratou tona whakaaro, na te mahi aunoa aha ia ta. Na, ki te hiahia koe ki te tiki iwi ki te mahi i te mea e hiahia ana koe, koe tuatahi i ki te riro ratou whakawhirinaki.

5. Whakamahia aau

Ko tētahi o nga ara māmā ki te whakapati i te tangata - ko te ki te whakamahi i kare. He tauira pai o tenei - pänui TV, e whakaatu nga tamariki mate. E ui ratou ki te koha moni mo to ratou maimoatanga. Ko te tino pouri enei pikitia, a meinga ana e ratou te iwi e hoatu moni ki te āwhina.

whakamahi tatou kare ki ngā whakapono, ara, ina tae mai te reira ki te whanaungatanga whaiaro. Ko, ahakoa, whai koe ki te kia tino tupato i te mahi koe i tenei. Hei tauira, he reira unethical ki te whakamahi i te he o tetahi tangata ki te rāwekeweke ratou. Ko te whakamahi o taua kare pai rite te aroha me te oaoa - ko te ara nui ki te tiki i ētahi atu iwi ki te whakaae ki a koe.

6. Whakamahia arorau ki te tiki te mea e hiahia ana koe

Ko e aronganui kore te iwi katoa. Ētahi E taea ki te tahuri atu te kare, ka riria ratou aha he reira tino uaua. Na reira, e kore e ti'a ia tatou e wareware e pā ana ki te whakamahi o te arorau. Ki te hiahia koe ki te riria tetahi tangata, tamata ki te matau nei ko ia. Pea mauruuru ia te arorau me te rationality o neke atu i te kare. Otiia, ki te e korero koe ki te rōpū nui o te iwi, he reira pai ki te hono i te arorau me te matekai me aronganui. Na koutou, i roto i etahi ara, pānga katoa.

7. Whakamahia 'ulungaanga whaiaro

Ki te mea ko koe te tohunga i roto i to koutou kaupapa, whakaatu i te reira "whakarongo." Kia hihiri me te ngā. Koutou "whakarongo" Ka kia nui māmā ki te riria, ki te hoatu e koe ia mo tenei take. Ki te mohio te iwi koutou me te whakaute, kia kukume ia ratou ki te kia tika ngāwari. Ko te aha i roto i te pānuitanga maha whakamahi rongonui. e matau ana ratou katoa, a ka hoko maha iwi i te hua no te mea noa te reira ta ratou e matau ana te iwi. Na reira, ko te "hoko koe" Ko te kī ki te whakaaro i.

I te tahi taime riria te tangata ki te tiki ngāwari, ētahi wā uaua. Otiia, ki te mahara koutou enei tohutohu, ka taea te tiki e koe te mea e hiahia ana koe.