Ka rite ki te kotiro ki te mea e ahau rite ai: tahi mau mana'o tauturu

I nga ra katoa, ka tutaki koe i ona mokowhiti whakaora, a ka tiaho tou mata ki runga ki te ataata. Ko reira taea e hinga koutou i roto i te aroha. Heoi ... rite te kotiro ki te mea e ahau rite reira, whakaaro koe. e kore te mea rite ohie te āhuatanga rite te mea te reira i mawhiti tuatahi. I te wa ano āta ngokingoki ana tou upoko i roto i tenei whakaaro: rite ki te kotiro e mea ai ahau rite reira, hoki ahau, e kore e waiho uaua, engari ahakoa toku mana'o tahi? Maoro, tīmata koe ki te ruarua koe o te pono o tona aroha mo te hihiko sex ritenga. I roto i tenei take, e hiahia ana koe ki te "kohikohi ki te ringa" me nuitia faaite ratou mau mana'o whakahe o te weriweri. Heoi, i reira he mea ki te e whakama ki te whakaae e kore koutou i mohio pehea te kotiro e mea "ahau rite reira", ka whiriwhiri ki te mahi i nga kupu tika. i aroha mua te kahui ka whakaaroa ara nui ki te whakapuaki i to ratou mau mana'o, a ko reira taea ki te taonga tarewa i roto i te ngaro o te wheako rawaka i te faaiteraa o tona aroha rite koe he tangata. I muri te pae maheni ki te tikanga e whai ake nei, e kore koutou e ui: "Me pēhea te ki te korero i te kotiro ahau e rite i te reira?"

Tuatahi, Me koe ki te kia fakamātoato ka whakaae koe to outou mau mana'o. A ani i te ahanoa o koutou hiahia i runga i te rā whaiāipo. Tō kōrero ki te kotiro e tango te wahi nuitia a fakanatula, kahore tetahi tohu o te whakaaro huna. Ki te koe, hei tauira, haere ki te wāhanga hākinakina, ka muri akomanga e patua ana ki te haere tahi ia whare. Ki te mea kua ngā koe ki ona hoa, ka koe, he i roto i to ratou porohita, ka e taea ki te korero ki a ia e hoki te wa roa titiro mo te hui.

Tuarua, e whakawaia, ki a koutou i te kotiro. Hoatu ki a ia he hainga ataahua o puawai, me tukua atu i te reira na roto i te karere tika ki te mahi. Ki te he ia he ākonga, kawea he hainga ki te whakarongo. Ki te kore te mahi koe, "te wehi", ka ngana ki te tiki i te reira i runga i te rere ahi ranei ki te whakaae ona mau mana'o kotiro i roto i te tuhituhi.

"Me pēhea te ki te Tuhia te kotiro ahau e rite i te reira?" - ui koe. E mea ohie: tuhituhi e toru kupu: "aroha ana ahau ki a koutou" i tona matapihi - a he pono ki te mauruuru i te reira ia. Kaua e wareware ki te ui mo tona tau waea - ka whai koe ha faingamālie atu ki te hāngai ki a ia. Kia mahara te reira e ko e taea ki te neke i te rohe o te mea kua tukua - he mea e tika ana ki te hei ki a ia tino huatau, me te peu.

Ko taea e miharo koe, "Me pehea e whakakitea e ahau ki a ia e ahau rite reira?" A ka kitea e ia te whakahoki. Tuatahi o te katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te riro i te whakawhirinaki o ratou kotiro taitamariki. Kia ite ia e he rite ki te haere mai ki te wa uaua ki te āwhina i ia koutou i nga wa katoa. Hei tauira, ki te he ia he raruraru ki tō rorohiko, te āwhina ia i roto i tenei i runga i to ratou ake (ki te he ratou ratou pai, o te akoranga), ranei ki te awhina o tona hoa. Ki te kitea e koe tona mea pakaru te kāinga, tangohia te kaupapa ki te whakatau i tēnei raruraru, kahore he ki te tatari tae noa ui ia mo reira ia. He mea tika ki te fakaafe'i te kotiro i runga i te ahiahi runaruna, hokona i te taua tīkiti mo te konohete he kiriata ranei.

kia mohio koe e tetahi ara ki te raupatu o te ngakau o te kotiro he pai, me te reira he he nui nui o ratou. He e waiho he wawata me te whakaaro! Ki te kore whakatata tetahi ara o te whakaipoipo, ka whakamahi i te tahi atu - a ka angitu koe!