He aha e kore ki te korero i te hui tuatahi ki te hoa kiritaki ranei: 21 kīanga

He koe mōhio ki ihupuku hoa, tika kōrero ki te kiritaki i roto i te huru māhorahora i runga i te kapu o te kawhe ranei, meinga o koutou kupu i te mana'o puai i ni'ai ona hoa. Ahakoa, ki te hinga te parau i to koutou ngutu pohehe, i taea kino reira koutou ingoa, me te pahua i te mana'o tuatahi. Tenei ko te kīanga e kore koe e whai ki te kōrero, ki te e whiwhi koe maheni i roto i te taiao ngaio.

"E kino ana ahau i tenei kamupene, me toku rangatira - he hangareka"

Kahore pai atu i ki te pahua i te mana'o tuatahi ko te wahi tika o te pöuri. Ahakoa, ki te kei te whai koutou ki te hoatu i te tahi atu tangata te pono, te heheu mea katoa e pā ana ki to koutou kamupene, kia mōhio e reira e etahi rohe o tikanga rangatira, e kore hoki e te whakaaetia ki te neke, ka hui. titau Social me te pakihi taiao koe ki te whakaatu o ratou huru maitatai pai. Waiho ki te karanga i te iwi ki nei koe i te hononga o te whakawhirinaki.

"Kia pehea te nui e whiwhi koe?"

E whakaaro ngā pātai e pā ana ki ngā taumata moni rawa whaiaro, na he kotiti ratou ina whakaminenga. Pātai mō moni ware me te maioha kore, a ki te he koe rawa ngā ki te whakarite i te utu, e taea te mahi i te reira i roto i takere tūmataiti pae motuhake ranei.

"Aroha mai ki whakakorikoria"

Ki te kore koe e hiahia ana ki te piri ki te tīmata ki te pātai, he aha koe i i rave i te reira? Hoki te parau omuaraa ra, ko te nui ake e tika ana ki te whakamahi i te tātauira rerekē: "? Ka taea e kitea e koe he meneti noa"

"He aha ta koutou whakaaro e pā ana ki to matou peresideni?"

Ka rite ki te tikanga whānui o te ritenga i te hui tuatahi e kore e kōrero e pā ana ki ngā mahi tōrangapū. Ahakoa, ki te kore koe ki te tikanga o nāianei, whakawhirinaki ketia e te iwi rawa whakangungua.

"E whakapono ana koe i roto i te Atua?"

Tenei ko te kotahi atu tātau kitea. Heoi, te whakahaere etahi iwi ki i mohio ki te haere kia tae noa e he hiahia i roto i te mau ti'aturiraa pae faaroo o te interlocutors ratou.

"No ahau ki te tokoiti fakasekisualé"

Ka pā anake tō takotoranga ki a koe me tou hoa. e kore e hiahia ana hoa me kiritaki ki te taputapu ake te mōhiohio roro e kore e e whakaata koutou mau huru ngaio me ngā whakatutukitanga.

"A, no te whai koe i te tamaiti?"

Ki te kite koe i te hoa hapu, e kore e ui ana pātai e pā ana ki te wā o te tuku. I tua atu, kia waiho ai e tona kopu porotaka ko te tohu o te whakawhanake tere te mate. whakanohoia e koe he hoa i roto i te tūranga rorirori.

"Ko e taea"

A, no te aparau i koe tetahi raruraru, ngana ki te karo i ngā tauākī categorical. Kia whakaaro me te whakahere rongoā kē.

"Kua rongo koutou ...?"

Ka taea e koe te wareware e pā ana ki te ingoa pai i roto i te taiao mahi, ki te haere tahi i tou mohio e te horapa o te kawekawe korero, ki nga hau. Mohio aha titiro ia rite te kawekawe i roto i te kanohi o etahi, ko te ara kino atu iwi, o nei e ia korero. Guess te wa tuatahi, e pā ana ki nei e kōrero kia ka ki o koutou hoa hou uiui te patunga o koutou whanoke?

"Ahau rite tou kakahu"

I roto i te taiao mahi e kore e tangohia ki te kōrero i runga i ahua o te tangata tona tikanga o te kākahu ranei. A pee i te mekameka o te whakahau i roto i te wāhi mahi.

"Whakarerea e ahau"

Ki te wheako koe fifi i roto i to outou oraraa whaiaro, e kore e tamata ki faaite ratou whakapawera ki te hoa hou. Tetahi whakahua o nga ati whaiaro o te wahi i roto i te taiao ngaio.

"Ahau whakaaro ..."

A, no te tango koe i te okioki mo te whakaata, tenei te tikanga e kore e tino i roto i to ratou tūranga o te pakeke koe. Ko wai e hiahia ki te mahi ki te tangata taua?

"Ko ahau te tino ngenge"

e kore e te matatika i whakaae ki otoheraa. mahi oti Tuatahi, a okioki ka whai koe te wa mo te wiki.

"Whakaaro ahau ki a koutou rerekē"

Kaua e tīmata i te aparauraa i te oto wiri ranei. e kore e tō kiritaki mohio he aha i koe mo tana tūmanako tiketike.

"I roto i te ora, ko koe pai nui"

Ano, e kore e tohu ki te kiritaki hoa ranei i runga i te mea tuatahi i whakaaro kino o ia. Te nuinga pea, kia tenei kitea ite ia noho humarie.

"Kia pehea te tau e koe?"

Hiahia i roto i te tau o te interlocutor he wairangi me te tika, ina koa, ki te he te reira i te wahine ataahua.

"Pono"

Ko te aronga āta i runga i tou faitotonú taea te tākaro ki a koe he kata kino. E karapoti e hamani koe ki hae, hua noa he whakapati paru.

"Kua pea rongo koe o ahau e kore nga mea tino pai ... pono taku e koutou e kore te e pono"

Waiho i te hau i horahia koutou hoa hae a tawhio noa. I tua atu, ki te e timata koe te mohio ki te tauhou ki te arotahi ratou whakarongo ki tona tangata ake, i ia te mana'o i whakaaro koe koe te tangata tino nui i roto i te tari.

"E taea te mahi koe ki ahau i te manakohia?"

Ko tētahi atu 10 meneti i mua e kore koutou i mohio ki tenei tangata, engari maia ki te ui ki a ia mo te manakohia. Me pēhea te ki te matau tenei?

"Ahau ... ahau ... ahau ..."

A ape i te mau parau siokita na'e i roto i tetahi whakahaere, ara, ki te he te reira āhua hoa ōpaki. Kia mahara ki taua ahau - te reta whakamutunga i roto i te tātai reta. e kore e rite te iwi ina te korero te tangata ki a ratou e ngana ana ki "toia te paraikete ki runga ia," tautautefito ki he taimi tae mai te reira ki te hui rawa tuatahi. Engari, tamata tetahi o te mahi whakarongo hohe ranei whakaatu e tiaki koe e pā ana ki te raruraru i haupu ai i runga i te tihi o to koutou ahumahi.

"Aue, me pehea ahau rite i te reira!"

Pea e hiahia ana koe ki te whakaatu i to ratou anaanatae katoa me pai. Heoi, arata'i he taua ngakau nui irrepressible ki te pānga ritenga. Ko te mea ngaro ki te angitu ki hoa hou, me kiritaki? noho Just koe.