Erik Bern: tātari take rite te tikanga o te hinengaro

Ko rongonui puta noa i te ao o te hinengaro me te hinengaro Eric Berne i te utu o tona ariā e pā ana ki te kōrero i waenganui i te iwi me o ratou pā ana ki a ratou ano, me ētahi atu. Transactional Analysis Erika Berna ako e maha kaimātai hinengaro e converged i te meka e ora te iwi ora tino i runga i te tauira e, i whakatakotoria i roto i te tamarikitanga. takoto tokomaha kupu matua te stereotypical whanonga o te tangata, whakatau reira te kounga o te ora, me te kōrero. He aha te mea te reira - te tātari take rite te tikanga o te hinengaro? He aha te mea tona ngako me te painga mo te tangata?

He aha te mea te ariā o te tātari take Erika Berna?

Kei te whakaaro te reira ki te waiho i te tauira hinengaro e whakaatu te tātaritanga o te whanonga, me te pāhekoheko tangata i roto i te rōpū, me te i roto ia ratou. riro tenei ariā kua tino paingia tika ki te wātea me ngā o whakamārama o ngā urupare whanonga tangata.

Ko te postulate matua konei ko e i roto i etahi huru e taea te tangata te mahi, i runga i nei o te toru e ahau-tūranga e te reira rānei. Ko te tuatahi o enei tūranga e whakarongo ki Bern Erik. Taketake tātari Transactional ki psychoanalysis, pera whakaaro me te tūhura i ngā āhuatanga hohonu o te konä tangata.

Hoki hinengaro mata nui o tono o tenei ariā ko te whakapae e taea tangata ia ako ki te whakaaro me te kia haepapa mo ratou mahi, whakawhirinaki ki runga ake mau mana'o katoa me ngā hiahia, kia whakatau, me te hanga hononga whaiaro. Mai i tenei tūranga, Erika Berna ariā ko te tikanga tino whai hua o te āwhina i te tangata i roto i te mahi ki te mau fifi o te ora.

Tūranga i roto i ngā whakawhitinga

I roto i tenei ariā, ki ngāwari matau te hanganga o te tuakiri - te āhua huru e toru: Parent, E tama, Pakeke. Ko tino rerekē i te tahi atu ia o ratou, he huinga o ngā āhuatanga whanonga, whakaaro, me te mana'o.

Hoki te kaiwhakatika ko reira tino nui ki te matau i roto i te mea kāwanatanga tomo te tangata kotahi ara ranei tetahi, me e taea te huri i tona whanonga kia taea e ia hei te tuakiri pai whakahuatia e Bern Erik. tātari Transactional whai wāhi e toru ture tumu ki te faatura ki enei āhua huru:

• Te tangata i runga i te tau o te tangata i kotahi he iti, kia kia whai te reira te tahi mea ki te mahi i raro i te mana o te tamaiti huru-kāwanatanga.
• horo'ai te taata tata'i (ki te whanaketanga noa o te roro) e ki te kaha ki te hanga whakatau e tika ana, me te aromatawai i te mooni e tohu te aroaro o tona pakeke kāwanatanga huru.
• I matou katoa matua ranei tangata hei whakakapi ratou, na to tatou teie parau tumu, ua faaite i roto i te āhua Parent huru.

I te matua o te hinengaro ki te tātari take ko awhina i roto i te whakatutukitanga o te tangata whanonga stereotypical huakore. Tātaritanga o whakawhitinga tango wahi ki te awhina o te mātanga, tauturu te tangata ki te riro atu hua i roto i te rapu mō rongoā i roto i te mōhiotanga o te parau mau, i roto i te whakatakoto whāinga heke mai.

Ko nga momo o whakawhitinga i roto i te hinengaro

Tetahi ngā waenganui i te iwi, korero kore-waha, ka karanga whakawhitinga i roto i te ariā ranei, i hoatu e Bern Erik. tātari Transactional i roto i te anga o te hinengaro Ko tā te ako o ngā hononga tangata, me te te kimi rongoā ki ngā raruraru e pupū ake.

He nui motuhake ki te tautuhi i kaupapa i arahina ki fifi i roto i te hononga. E rua nga tu o ngā whakawhitinga kōrero ki a kori ā:

• whakarara;
• whiti.

tikanga whakarara pāhekoheko

Ko te kaiwhakatika mahi ki te kiritaki, whakatau he aha te ahua o whakawhitinga i whakamahia. whakaaro whakarara he hononga hua. I roto i tenei take, me ōrite te huru-tūnga. Hei tauira, he tauwhitinga ki te pātai "pehea e koe?" me te whakahoki, "Ko te pai katoa!" hanga i te tirohanga o te pakeke. I roto i tenei take, e kore e kore raruraru i roto i te pāhekoheko puta.

whakawhitinga ripeka

Ka taea e Cross tīmata papā. Ko tenei pāhekoheko, i roto i nei i te faaitoitoraa (pātai piira ranei) mai te whakautu ohorere i te tirohanga o te tahi atu āhua huru. Hei tauira, te pātai "Kei hea te taku mahi tiaki?" me te whakahoki, ko te, "Kei hea te maka, i reira, ka tangohia ana i roto i!" - te hoko i te tirohanga o ngā pakeke me ngā mātua. I roto i tenei take, kia whakawhanake i te pakanga.

He Kei te huna tonu tauwhitinga (i runga i te taumata hinengaro, me te pāpori). I roto i tenei take, he mea nui ki te tātari i te mau tumu o te iwi kōrero ki ia atu.

Poapoa ki te kōrero

He mea nui mō te whakaaetanga whanaketanga whaiaro. Tenei Ko tetahi o nga hiahia tangata taketake. I roto i te ariā, i huaina tātaritanga take taua whakaaetanga faaitoitoraa ranei te "stroking". Taua mau taime i roto i te tahitanga taea te kawe i te 'uhinga pai kino ranei. "Stroking" He tino (tika mo te meka i te tangata, ko te) me herenga (hoatu hoki mahi). Kua peitatia nga mea whakamutunga ki te tohu o te aau, "+" ranei "-".

I roto i te mātanga mahi whakaora haapii te tangata ki te tango i taua poapoa ranei e kore e ki te rave i te reira, tautautefito ki he taimi he tōraro ratou. e kore e tika ki te tango i nga wa katoa herenga pai "whiu", rite ki te tangata ako ki te kia "pai", ko e, e ngana ana ki te pai te katoa, e pokaia ki a ratou ano.

He mea nui hoki ki te whakaako i te kiritaki ki te whakarere i te tikanga e kua hoatu mua mo te manawarū pai, ki te kahore ratou e Tuamata ki te tūranga ā-o te tangata, ngā te nei fakamamafa'i Bern Erik. tauturu Transactional Analysis te kiritaki ki te arotahi ki runga i te hanga i te tikanga e tika ana mo ia, te wahi e taea te ite i ia he kaha hou ki te hanga whakatau, me te pera i runga i. I roto i te whakapā haumanu ki te kaimātai hinengaro whakaako i te tangata ki te farii i koe, katahi ka kia angitu kōrero.

whakawhitinga Faitotonu me i hao

Ko te wāhi i muri i roto i te ako o whakawhitinga rite te tikanga o te therapy ko ki te tātari i te taunekeneke e whakatau i te runaruna takitahi. huaina ana tēnei āhuatanga ko te wa te hanga Eric Berne. he hehema psychoanalysis ki te whakaaro i te reira i te iti i runga i te tahi atu taha: i te tūranga o tikanga ārai.

E ono ara o te wā te hanga:

• Care (ara whakanao ki te rongo tangata);
• kēmu (he raupapa o whakawhitinga huna, e te hunga hoki "taurite" rāwekeweke iwi);
• feohi (taunekeneke fakasekisualé);
• tikanga (tauwhitinga mana'o e tika ana, me ngā āhuatanga o waho);
• Whakangahau (paetae o etahi whāinga mo koe);
• mahi (te fariiraa i te mau mana o te a tawhio noa, me te paetae o ratou whāinga).

E huaina ana te toru whakamutunga "faitotonu" no te mea e kore te reira e rāwekeweke ētahi atu. Kaihaumanu i roto i te aparauraa e tauturu hanga tauwhitinga pai kahore whanonga whakanao. Games - Ko te pānga i runga i ngā whanonga o te tangata. Mō ratou aparau i raro.

tauari Life o te iwi

ora tangata katoa hoki te tauira e hoatu, rite te tamaiti, totohe Eric Berne. tauari Psychology ora o te iwi, tei runga i te tūranga tangohia e te tamaiti.

1. Ko te toa - ko te tangata e kua tutuki te whāinga i roto i te whawhai e whai wāhi mai ētahi atu. I roto i te maimoatanga e reassessing enei iwi ratou waiaro me kēmu ringaringa, e ngana ana ki te hanga i te tauwhitinga hua i waho e pā i te tahi atu.
2. Patua - iwi e faaruru tonu rahunga, e whai wāhi mai ētahi atu i roto i o ratou whakapawera. Ko te tino nui hinengaro mo taua iwi. I roto i te kōrero, me te tātaritanga o ngā whakawhitinga mahino taua iwi i te take mo ratou rahunga i roto i te ora. E whakaako kiritaki ki te tauhohe ki te raruraru, e kore ki te whai wāhi a ratou i roto i ētahi atu, tamata ki te tiki i roto i o raruraru tamau.
3. "Ehara i toa" - tangata mateaki, e mahi ana ratou mau ohipa katoa, kia tupato e kore ki te pumau te iwi a tawhio noa ratou. He mahara ki te tukanga o te hinengaro koutou tauari ora, he tangata taua e etahi whakatau e hāngai ana i runga i o koutou hiahia, me ngā whāinga.

tauari katoa (mō ētahi atu pārongo e pā ana ki a ratou e taea te pānui i roto i te pukapuka, i tuhituhia e Eric Berne, - "Psychology o te whanaungatanga tangata, ranei Games People Play"), whiwhi tatou rite te hua o te hōtaka mātua i roto i te kōhungahunga. Tuatahi ohi ratou karere kore-waha, ka i roto i te kōrero. E ngā ratou i runga i te ora o te hinengaro, kia kore e taea e te tangata imi te mea e fakahā atu'e tona whanonga. Na reira, raruraru e pā ana ki tauari ora taunekeneke pakanga ranei, he mea nui ki te kōrero i te kaihaumanu e matau ana nga taura ariā o te tātari take.