E mo'oni te aha e kore e hoatu? He aha te he ki taua?

"Kaua e titiro i te hoiho homai i roto i te mangai" - mohiotia tenei faaiteraa te ki katoa, engari he tokomaha ki a ia kaha whakahē, rawa tenei ra, ka hoatu nga mea homai ki auraa tata ao. I muri i te katoa, kua whakapono ai e te he utu hakari atu utu, te teitei te uara taata horo'a koe. He tokomaha hoki, he tino noa "kia" he mea homai, e ko te ki te mea i roto i te utuafare reo mania e whai ana ki te hoatu ki a koe e ratou. Well, pea ko etahi tikanga tenei. Kia tenei mea homai i roto i take me kore e waiho te ohorere, engari e kore e ka te whare taputapu. hari tika, ahakoa mea "ritenga" tawhiti neke atu i hitimahuta faufaa. kia te tangata, i tona ngakau me te wairua haumi i roto i to koutou Present, a kihai i mohio he aha te ki te hoatu, roa whiriwhiria ia, whakapono pono e pārekareka ki a koutou. Pea e kua ia i koa ki te hoatu te tahi mea atu te utu, engari i reira he kahore kaha pūtea. A e kore e tenei tikanga e pā reira ki te mea a koutou kino atu i te kotahi e kua ninii koe ki te koura, taimana me iPhones. utua e ia tokanga makehe ki a koutou, kua kore ia wareware e pā ana ki to koutou hararei, ka ko te tino faufaa tenei i roto iho.

Heoi, koutou e kore ano e rite haere mai tenei "parikārangaranga cheap" whakapakoko nui Teti hippo māwhero ranei, a kei te whakaaro kē koe e pā ana ki te wahi i tenei he whakama ki te hoatu. Otiia e kore e tae mai i te reira ki to koutou ngakau, e kore he aha homai e mo'oni? No, o te akoranga, e hoatu, engari ahakoa he reira pai i te iti rawa i te wāhi matatika o te tirohanga? Tera pea e te aroaro koutou te hippo māwhero faufaa taua tetahi tangata. Engari kia mau ai ki ai ka waiho ia waia ki te hunga e hoatu ana e ia ki a koutou. takawairore Peredaril tētahi atu nei kia mohio ai koutou kaituku ranei. Ko te, whakaaro hoki te kau e te iwi ite i te ngakau hanga koe i te mea homai, ki te ohorere koe te kite i te mea te aroaro ki a koutou i te tangata ke. e waiho e koe pai ki te kite i te kore e koutou ake homai i te tangata ki te i te tikanga nei i te reira? Na ko tika te aroaro tetahi o nga take o te mea homai te tenei.

kia takoto tētahi atu take i roto i te meka e te tīmatanga kawea he hakari i te tetahi tikanga aronganui ranei, e ko hiahia te whakaora ki a koutou mea te tahi mea i roto i tenei ara. A, no te kōwhiri i te manatunga, hoatu ana e ia ki reira he wahi o tona wairua me te pūngao pai. Otiia kihai koutou i matau i te tīwhiri, homai kore e koe hiahia i te mea ki tetahi tangata, i roto i te pai e taea e kino nei ringa: ko te mea homai "faata'i" ki a koutou, a ka poipoia atu ia koutou. Ko reira pea e ka kawea mai tenei mea te oaoa, me te te koa o te rangatira hou. Na ano i reira ko te perception e kore kua aroaro te karaka. Kei te whakapono te reira e ka tika he taua hakari arahi ki te wehenga o ngā hononga (rawa, ki te aroha ratou). whakaae te tangata ki tenei tohu, a kua i te wheako meapango o pekanga i muri takoha tona tiaki, me te tangata, me i muri i te tekau o nga "karaka whakaoho" tonu ki te ora te oaoa ki tona hoa.

Ko tonu, he aha e kore homai e mo'oni? Te nuinga pea, no te mea ki te homai he tangata ki a koe i te tino utu, ka koe noa e kore e tukua te hinengaro ki te mawhiti ahakoa kahore. Koe taua / ki e whakama muri i taua wa i tohungia i runga i te rapu me te moni ki te hoko i te mea homai noa pai, a te aroaro te tuatahi i kitea e faufaa i roto i te whare. Ki te ko tatou kia vēkeveke ki te pehea e hiahiatia te hakari, me te kore koutou e whakapono i roto i katoa o mana'o hape i te utu o te kaha, ka, o te akoranga, ka taea e hoatu e koe he mea ki te hunga e hiahia ana i te reira, ka hokona ranei e i roto i te mutunga. I runga i te pātai o te aha e kore hoki e mo'oni, Ka taea e anake whakahoki ake koutou "e ahau".