Āhuatanga whaiaroaro, me te hinengaro o te taiohi i roto i te tino

I te "whakawhiti ki pakeketanga" Kua rongo matou tata katoa ngā mātua. A he tokomaha wehi o tona tupu e, kia rite ki te whānui whakapono e meinga tamariki i pūhuruhurutanga he whakatoi,, i reira he raruraru i roto i to ratou whanonga. Me kï reira e ki te huarahi tika ki te mātauranga me te whakarongo i ngā pakeke kia fakamolū te whakawhitinga o te tamaiti ki te taiohi.

Hei tīmata ki te huringa-tinana e puta i roto i te tamaiti i te pūhuruhurutanga. E ahau ki tenei wa, no te 10-14 tau. Heoi, kia huri i te whika i roto i rānei aronga, a kahore he ine (o te akoranga i roto i rohe whaitake), rite katoa kua ratou ake whanaketanga takitahi.

I roto i te nui i roto i te tinana tīmata ki te whakaputa i hormones sex, e ko te take o huringa motuhake ki tenei rōpū pakeke. Ki te kōrero tatou e pā ana ki tamariki, te taiaki matua he testosterone. Ratou whanaketanga moepuku ko e whai ake. I te tīmatanga, whakanui i te i romia i roto i te rahi, a reira he kikokiko makawe tinana. Ko te huringa reo huri noa i te tau o 13 tau (e ko te ki te mea "i matao"). riro ia ngaru. Ko te tukanga o te hoko te reo o te tangata e taea muri ake ki te rua tau. Na ka tīmata te tupu kaha ki te puta makawe kanohi.

E mea pinepine i te pūhuruhurutanga kia wheako raruraru pērā i nui sweating, hakihaki ranei hakihaki ki runga ki te mata , me te tinana. Āwhina kia whakakahoretia atu o ratou akuaku whakarei me etahi poke.

Ko te kotiro i roto i te tinana i tenei tau tīmata ki te whakaputa i mātātoa estrogen, e pä te whanaketanga o tuarua āhuatanga fakasekisualé me te matuatanga whānui. Ko te tupu o nga repe mammary, tino maha e tika ana ki te whakapapa, me te mutu i roto i 17-19 tau. I muri i te peke kaha i roto i te tupu o te tīmatanga o te paheketanga. Hoki te wa tuatahi, ka taea e waiho ratou kōhikohiko, me te mauiui. Ki te mea kaha rawa te mamae, e tūtohu ana ki te kōrero i te tākuta.

Psychology taiohi 14 tau e kore te mea rite ohie rite te mea te reira i mawhiti tuatahi. pānga tinana matuatanga i runga i te huru whānui o te tamaiti, me hormones te taikaha - i runga i tona ao aronganui. Tino maha, kia tama a tenei ao hei pukuriri, riro tutu, ako upstaged uara ārahi kōrero.

Ngā pakeke nei tamariki kua tomo te "tau tuke", me kia koe rawa tahuri ki a ratou tamariki. He mea nui e kore e ki te mahue i te kau, me te korero ki takitahi taiohi e pā ana ki te pūhuruhurutanga o me te whanaungatanga i waenganui i te tangata me te wahine. I muri i te katoa, he aha te kitea e ia i roto i te huarahi e hoa taea te mohio ki reira he reira rawa he, me te hua e i roto i te heke mai kia meinga raruraru hinengaro.

I pūhuruhurutanga, ahu te nuinga o ngā tamariki ki te mana motuhake me te mana motuhake. He tika ki to ratou whanonga tutu, me te whakahē tenei. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te aukati i rawa te haere noa o te taiohi, ara, ki te i kitea nga mahi kino i muri ia, ka taea e rave i te reira te kino anake. kia mohio ki te reira e ko kua te tamaiti pakeke te tangata tika motuhake, a ki reira ki te mahi i runga i te taahiraa rite. Ko reira kia te matua i roto i tenei wā, te pai o hoa, no te mea ki anake te ara whakahaere i te whanonga o ratou tamaiti.

whanaketanga Fakasekisualé o ngā kōtiro tīmata puku mua atu i te mau tamaroa. Tenei Ko tetahi o nga take e timata kotiro ki te feinga mo rangatira kamupene pakeke. Ahakoa, ki te he wehi o hopearaa kino pakeke, e kore e hua'tu rāhuitia tangata ki te hei hoa. Tona mahi katoa, ahakoa te kanga ki runga ki te tahi mea whakamanatanga ranei, me tautohe koe. Ko roto i tenei wā, he tino rauangi ki taua ariā rite faitotonú, tika, auhoaraa, te aroha taiohi, me te tamata i roto i ngā huarahi maha ki te pee i ngā pakeke e karapotia ratou, tae atu ia ki a ratou.