Me pēhea te ki te whiriwhiri i te mea homai noa ki tana wahine i runga i tona ra whanautanga?

He maha nga tangata confuses te pātai o te mea ahua o homai ki tana wahine he ra whanau ki te whiriwhiri. He mea nui hoki ki nga wahine ite tino aroha, ahurei, me te motuhake, a reira kia te homai e hāngai ana ki reira.

Na roto i te kōwhiringa o te hakari, ko te ki te whakatata ki toku ngakau katoa, no te mea he nui tupukoso foaki ki kite i te ngākau me te koa mau o te ohorere, kaua ki te tau'a. Ko te aha ki te hoatu ki whanaunga me hoa o te tangata? A me pehea ki te hanga i te ohorere taua e whakaaro tatou e pā ana ki reira mō ngā tau ki te haere mai?

He maha ngā huarahi ki te hanga i te taketake homai ki tana wahine i runga i tona ra whanautanga. Ko te kuware tino - kitea tetahi te mea i hiahia tonu ia, a korerotia koe e pā ana ki reira tonu. Whakapono ahau, tenei mea, ko te tino i reira! whakarongo āta Just ki te mea ta te aroha. kia koe ui: "He aha e pā ana ki te ohorere?". Whakapono ahau, ka kitea te ohorere i roto i te meka e kua rongo koe ngā tīwhiri te reira.

Ano, hoko he wahine homai ra whanau, e kore e wareware e pā ana ki te puawai. e kore koe e taea e te tiki a tawhio ko te tua nui, kahore nei e kore e kore e he hakari titiro pera huatau, me te ataahua, rite kia reira tenei. Ki te matau koutou ki nga reka me manakohanga o te tokorua, te hainga ataahua o tae tino whiriwhiri koe e kore e waiho uaua. Ko te mea nui, kia mahara e te paihere - e kore te reira te mea homai noa iho, engari he ngä anake!

O te akoranga, ka kia tetahi wahine koa, me te hari tenei homai, rite te koti huruhuru, whakapaipai, he motokā, me ētahi atu, engari, kāore, e taea e kore te tangata katoa utu taua mau horo'a. Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga i te mea homai noa pono nehenehe i roto i te nui āhua - hoko he tiwhikete i roto i te kakara toa underwear ranei.

Te kōrero e pā ana ki te aha homai ki tana wahine mo tona huritau ki hoatu i roto i tetahi take e kore e taea, ko reira utu te whakahua taputapu whare me ngā tūemi whare. E whakatakoto ana No pai, me te banal homai rite ki te tiaki hoki a ratou, no te mea a koutou te nuinga pea e kore e mohio rite pehea Paku waitohu pai ia.

Kaua e wareware e pā ana ki taua kōrero iti rite te tākai me te hoahoa o koutou mea homai noa. No te wahine, he mea nui ki te ihirangi kore anake, engari ano hoki i te puka, tāpaetanga.

Kaua e mutu i tetahi eé, whakarite hoki te tina taurima tūturu tana wahine. Tāpui i te tepu i te wharekai, te waihanga i te huru whaiāipo i roto i to koutou ake fare ranei. Kia tino e mauruuru i te wahine te tohu taua. Ki te he pai ki te horo'ai ki tou tino e kore i roto i te ahiahi anake, engari te ra katoa koe, ka taea e te hararei tīmata tika i roto i te ata. Kawea mai to koutou kawhe aroha i roto i te moenga, e kore e wareware e pā ana ki te puawai. ti'ai te ata i te kakara o te rōhi me taurangi te wahine te huru pai puta noa i te ra.

Ki te hiahia koe i tou homai ki te wahine noho i roto i tona mahara mo tana ra whanau ake te mahi te mea kihai i taea e ia ara moemoea o. kia waiho tenei hei haerenga ki waho mo te wiki, ka skydiving, ka whakairi-e rere ana. Katoa e ka rato to koutou whakaaro, nau mai. Ki te pai koutou hoa faaipoipo i te runaruna haumaru, hoatu ia te whai wāhi ki te riro i te tauira mo te ra. A ani i kaitango ngaio toi ranei e whaowhao koutou wahine i roto i te tikanga pai rawa.

tu pānuitanga me tona whakaahua me nga kupu o mihi i koutou i roto i te pokapū o te tāone ranei i te kāinga - i tetahi atu whakaaro. Hei kawe i taea i tenei mahere te āwhina koe i roto i te taiwhanga pānuitanga, te wahi kaihoahoa tahi ki a koutou, ka hanga i te kara motuhake.

Ko te homai pai ki tana wahine - he mea homai noa i hanga ki te aroha. Aita e hi'oraa e aha te moni koutou e te reira utu me pehea te roa ka tangohia reira ona faaineineraa, te mea matua i he hari, me te ihirangi roto tona ra whanau koutou wahine tino. Koe, neke atu i te tangata atu, kia mohio te mea e hiahia ana ia me moemoea e pā ana ki to koutou hoa, na e kore e waiho e koe i faaiti i, me te tikanga. Faaite i roto i tona mea homai o te aroha katoa, me te pono o mana'o me whakapono ki ahau, e kore koutou mau tautooraa e haere hia!