Ko te whakautu ki te pātai uaua: "Me pēhea te ki te whakaea ki moemoe?"

reira he kaha hangarau ki te kōrero i te atu, ite taratahi i te hapori o ratou ahua ki runga ki te taumata aronganui te atu iwi. Mata kōrero faahohonu anake te tikanga o te hiahia, rastravlivaemoe pikitia angitu i roto i whatunga pāpori. Photos o te tahi atu mau taata. Ki te ohorere koe ui tenei pātai mamae: "Me pēhea e ahau mahi ki moemoe" - kitea rawatia koe e taea e kite i te roimata atu tauhohe rawa aronganui ranei. Ka taea e tatou te rapu i te ara i roto i o te āhuatanga uaua?

Kanga o ti'aturi ore

Ko te mea kino rawa ko te ngoikore ki te kōrero - whakapono o te tangata i roto i te meka i ia he taea ki te hanga i te hononga hohonu, me te nui. Ko te whakapono e te hunga tika o te aroha katoa, ia ia anake. Roots, o te akoranga, haere mai i toku tamarikitanga, engari kei te te mamae i te reira e kore e taea e te iwi whakarerea noatia ana matua, e kore e taea te hanga e ia he rerekētanga. Kaua e tamata ki te huri kua hanga, ka taea e tatou a me ora i runga i. Na ka i runga i te pātai maioha kore, "me pehea ki te mahi ki te moemoe" - ka hoatu he whakahoki pono: "Ko ahau kore anake (te)."

aroha

Ko te mea tuatahi ki te mahara: whanaungatanga mahana, me te whakawhirinaki - e kore te mea he pai tiketike, me te täkupu o te ngā tangata tenei. Mahalo e rapu noa koutou mo te iwi he i roto i te hononga, i ko te taahiraa matamua - te huri ake. Ki te maka o te mo'emo'e? Ngā kaimātai hinengaro tohutohu ki te rapu hui ki te iwi o ētahi atu momo, e kore taua ki ta koutou e whakamahia ki te kitenga a tawhio noa ia ia. Ka Me koe te hou hangarau kōrero, me o ratou mahi pai i roto i runga i trainings motuhake.

Na te aha e taea e hoatu e ahau?

Ko te taahiraa tuarua - te tātaritanga o tona whai taea ki ētahi atu. I te wa ano wāriutia matauranga ngaio kore anake, engari ano hoki te kaha ki te whakarongo, tātari, matapae. O te akoranga, whai koe ki te whakapau i to ratou wa, me te kore whakaaro e pā ana ki a ratou ano anake. Ko tae noa ako koe ki te hoatu te tahi mea i roto i te kōrero, e kore koutou e whiwhi ki te riro angitu i roto i te kōrero. Mana'o o te moemoe, kahore ona, maha e pā ana ki moemoe e pā ana te ara ki te kore o te mahi tahi, me te kore o te mōhiohio tauwhāiti (mo koutou momo o mentality) o te puka. Me Na tika ki mahara te mea whakamahia ki te kia pai, me te whakaongaonga koutou moni i roto i te ora. A e kore e tamata ki te whiwhi tika utu mo te kore o ngā mōhiohio i te iwi.

Ko te kōwhiringa pai

Me pēhea te ki te akakoromaki i moemoe? Ko te whakautu tika ki tenei pātai: "Tonu rapu mō wheako hou, te tātari ngā, e ngana ana ki te imi i te ngākau nuitanga noa, me te whakawhānui i te whānuitanga o ō rātou ngākau nuitanga, ki te taea ki te kōrero i runga i ngā kaupapa rerekē." I muri i te katoa, e kore te mea kahore te hiahia mo te aroha, me te mea tatou kahore i tamata ki te riria te kore piri o te aroha mutunga. Just he taua whāngai aroha hoa e kore e rawa, me kare. E rawa - ahua o te hononga.

Ki te pātai, "me pehea ki te mahi ki te moemoe" - e kore e kawea mai ki roimata, he mea e tika ana ki te mahi i roto i ona ake raruraru i te whakangungu ranei ki te kaimātai hinengaro, ki te rapu wairua whanaunga , me te ako ki te tiaki i hiahia ratou ake mōhiohio. riro atu hua Communication ki te whai wāhi i te reira e rua communicant motuhake. Kaua e wehi, e whakapono tika i roto i reira, e ki reira he iwi pai atu te hunga koutou e whakamahia ki. Na faarahi te tūponotanga o te aroha ki te iwi pai i roto i mohio hou.