He aha te ki te kore e te whaea aroha ki ahau: tohutohu tohunga

Ko te kupu tino utu i roto i te ora o te tangata ia - mama. Ko reira hoki tatou he puna o te tino utu nui - te ora. Ka rite ki na tupu e reira he tamariki, me te ara ngā pakeke, ka taea e rongo koe i nei te kupu hu: "E kore e mama rite ahau ..."? Taea riro hari te tangata? He aha e te mau hopearaa i roto i te ora pakeke tatari mo te tamaiti kinongia me aha ki te mahi i roto i te āhuatanga i taua?

tamaiti e kinongia

mahi tuhituhi, waiata, me te toi katoa, te ahua o te whaea whakamoemiti rite te ngawari, atawhai, tairongo, me te aroha. Mama e pā ana ki te mahana me te tiaki. A, no te e mate matou, tatou noa i oke ai ranei hamama, "Mama!". Pehea i te mea e hoki te tangata e kore te mea pera toku whaea. Aha e tatou ake me te ake pinepine rongo tatou: "He aha te mea te whaea e kore e aroha ki ahau?" Mai i ngā tamariki, me te ara ngā pakeke.

Koinei, e taea te rongo i enei kupu e kore anake i roto i te mau utuafare raruraru hinga te wahi matua i raro i te kāwai o tūpono, engari ano hoki i roto i te mau utuafare, i mawhiti tuatahi, he haumaru rawa, kei hea he pai i roto i te tikanga rauemi katoa, e toku whaea tiaki o te tamaiti, whāngai ia, potae , mauria ki te kura, me te pera i runga i. n.

Huri i te reira i roto i taua i te taumata tinana ki te kawe i nga ngaahi fatongia katoa o whaea, engari i te wa ano faaere te tamaiti i roto i te kāinga - i roto i te aroha! Ki te kore e te kotiro ite aroha whaea, haere ia i roto i te ora ki te puranga o wehi me complexes. E pā ana hoki tēnei ki te mau tamaroa. Hoki te tamaiti i te pātai i roto rawa: "He aha kia meatia e ahau, ki te kahore te whaea e aroha ki ahau" tahuri ki te kino. Boys, i roto i te whānui, ka rite ki ngā pakeke, ka taea e kore tika hamani i te wahine, ka, kahore fakatokanga'i, pohehe tango utu mo tona kore o te aroha i roto i te tamarikitanga. He uaua te tangata taua ki te hanga i te tika, hauora, me te ki tonu, hononga pai ki te takoto wahine.

Nahea te kāore te matua?

Ki te he e pängia ana ki te pēhanga morare auau te whaea, te pēhanga ki runga ki tou tamaiti, ki te tamata i te reira ki te neke atu i tona rebonochka, e kore ki te tamata i te ite i ana raruraru, me te kore ki te whakarongo ki tona hiahia, ka tino pea, te reira tino kore e aroha ki tona tamaiti. Tonu tangi pātai ā-: "He aha kia meatia e ahau, ki te kahore te whaea e aroha ki ahau" homai he tamaiti, he noa pakeke, ki te korekore, i mohiotia ki te kia wehe ki hopearaa. Kāore whaea taea puta mo te ngā take, engari te nuinga o te katoa e pā ana te reira ki te papa o te tamaiti, e kore e nei tika ähua ki tona wahine i ki a ia apo i roto i nga mea katoa,, me i roto i te rauemi me te mau mana'o. Pea e maka mama, a hopoi mai te reira ake te tamaiti ia. A e kore tetahi! ..

metua vahine katoa kāore ki whakatika te tamaiti i te mau fifi e te ite ia. Te nuinga pea, tenei wahine, he rebonochkom, i kore i aroha ia na ratou matua ... Ehara i te mea maere ko te kitea, ki te te whaea ia rite te tamaiti miharo: "? He aha te mea te whaea e kore e aroha ki ahau", Otiia kihai i titiro ki a ia, me whakautu te tahi mea te huri i tetahi mea i roto i to outou oraraa, engari tika pohehe aru te ara ano, tukurua i te tauira o te whanonga o tona whaea.

He aha e kore e rite toku whaea?

Hard ki te whakapono, engari i reira he āhuatanga i roto i te ora o te tau'a katoa, me te tinihanga o te whaea mo tana tamaiti. Na enei mau mama e taea ki te iwi i roto i nga ara ki te whakamoemiti tana tamahine ranei tama, engari mahue anake - ki tawaia, whakaititia me te wareware. e kore e ēnei whaea whakawhāiti te tamaiti i roto i te kakahu, kai, te mātauranga ranei. nedodayut ratou tona aroha timatanga me te aroha, e kore e kōrero ki te ngakau tamaiti ki te ngakau e kore he hiahia i roto i tona ao i roto, me hiahia,. Ka rite ki te putanga, e kore e te tama (tamahine) aroha tona whaea. He aha te ki te i waenganui i te whaea me te tama (tamahine) e kore e ara ake te hononga tūturu o te whakawhirinaki. I te tahi taime noa e tenei tau'a hia.

Ko te ao huri noa te tamaiti kite te marama o te aroha whaea. A, ki te kahore te mea, pehea kite te ao te tamaiti kinongia? Mai tamarikitanga, ui iti tamaiti: "He aha e kinongia ahau? He aha te he? Aha na tau'a a nanakia toku mama ki ahau? ". O te akoranga, ko reira he whētuki hinengaro, e hōhonu e taea whakauaua te whanganga hoki reira. whakauria ka haere mai ki te pakeketanga tenei tangata complexed ki wehi o te maunga, me te kore e taea ki te aroha me te kia aroha. i pehea ia hanga i tona ora? Huri i te reira i roto i, i mate ia ki te inoino?

Tauira o ngā āhuatanga kino

Metua vahine e kore maha e kite pehea tona tau'a hanga he āhuatanga i reira e tono kua ratou: "? He aha te mea e kore e rite ki te tamaiti tona whaea" A e kore e matau ki te take, akaapaanga ano te tamaiti. Ko tenei he āhuatanga angamaheni, ano, ki te hoatu te tamaiti ko te pātai rite, kei te rapu ia mo te ngakau o tona tamaiti ki waho, me te ngana ki te pai toku whaea, akaapaanga ia. Na mama, i runga i te anga ke, e kore e hiahia ana ki te matau e ko te take o te hononga taua ia.

Ko tētahi tauira o te whaea hononga hiahiatia hoki tona tamaiti ko te aro mātai paerewa o te kura i roto i te rātaka. Kotahi rebonochka manawanui, ki te he iti te score, mea ratou, tetahi mea, ka waiho i te wa i muri teitei, me te tahi atu zagnobyat a ka huaina e mediocrity me mangere ... reira tupu hoki e toku whaea i kore e tiaki e pā ana ki te haapiiraa, a i te kura e kore ia e titiro, me te rātaka me ui e taea te hapai i te mea e hiahiatia ana i te pukapuka hou ranei? Na reira te pātai: "He aha te ki te kahore e rite te kuao toku whaea," me te tuatahi whakahoki e koe tona whaea ki a ia, "He aha i mea ai ahau ki te whakarite kia aroha ki ahau tamariki?". Hoki li'aki ratou tamariki utu hoa whaea.

toharite koura

Ko reira tupu hoki e kaha whakatutuki te whaea ki te tamaiti, me te whakaara ake ia i "daffodil" - te kōhikohiko hoki e mauruuru tamariki iti taua, kite ratou ratou rite te pokapū o te ao, me te puna o tona whaea ki te whakatau i to ratou mau hinaaro. tupu ēnei tamariki hoki ake kahore hoki e mohio pehea ki te aroha, engari ako ratou ki te tango i te pai me te tono! Na reira, i roto i te katoa ki te waiho i te mehua o "toharite koura", e taikaha me te aroha! Taime atoa e kore e rite ki te tamaiti i toku whaea, e hiahia ana koe ki te titiro mo te pakiaka i roto i pā ana ki te matua ki te tamaiti. Kei te nuinga o te wā mio'i te reira, ka mutilated, e titau te reira whakatikatika me te wawe te pai. E taea e ki hohoro whakarerea noatia a wareware te kino, i roto i te rerekē ki te mahara pakeke kua hanga e tamariki.

tau'a tamau me te huru tōraro ki te tamaiti tono trudnoizgladimy tohu i runga i tona ora. Ki te whānuitanga nui noa e ngaropoina ana. kitea torutoru tamariki kinongia i roto i te ora pakeke te kaha, me te pūmanawa mō te whakatikatika whaea kino waiho o te raina whakarau.

Kia pehea te mahi matua, ki te ko te tamaiti 3 tau, ia ta e kore rite ia tona whaea, a kia ara patu?

Ko te maha he āhuatanga taua te hua o te tapepe aronganui. Pea e kore e te tamaiti ia farii i whakarongo. Mama tākaro ki a ia, kahore he whakapā tinana. Me maha Baby ki awhi, kihi me te kōrero ki a ia e pā ana ki whaea aroha hoki ia. I mua i te haere ki te moe me ia haapapûraa, stroking te hoki, te tai'oraa i te korero patupaiarehe. Nui me te āhuatanga o whanaunga ki papa o te whaea. Ki te he te reira kino, ehara i te mea whanonga maere o te tamaiti. Ki te kahore he i roto i te kuia o te whānau, ka tona huru ki te mama me te papa - he mana kaha i runga i konä i o te tamaiti.

I tua atu, e kore e te rāhui i roto i te utuafare e rawa nui, me nga ture - kotahi mo te katoa. Ki te mea kino rawa te tamaiti, ngana ki te whakarongo ki a ia, ki te kitea i roto i te mea i whakapawerawera ia ia. Āwhina ia, whakaatu i te tauira o te mana ata o tetahi āhuatanga uaua. Tenei ka waiho i te poraka whare pai mo tona ora pakeke heke mai. A tino e whai ki te mutu i te whawhai katoa. A, no te zamahivanii i runga i ngā hiahia tamaiti whaea, mārama titiro i roto i te kanohi, me te pupuri tona ringa, me te mau mea e kore e taea te whiua te whaea! Ko te mea matua - kia ōrite puta noa, puta marie, me te āhua.

He aha e kore e taea e koutou te mea i

Nuinga o ngā wā, i te pātai "He aha e meatia e ahau, ki te kahore ahau te mahi tamaiti tino o toku whaea?" A ani i kua tupu ratou ake tamariki te mutunga rawa. Kua kē whakaaro o tenei tangata i hanga e, a Nireaha ki te whakarerekētanga tino uaua. Otiia e kore e mahi i ngakaukore! Awareness - Ko te timatanga o te angitu tenei! Ko te mea matua e kore e tenei take i tahuri ki te tauākī: "Ae, e ahau tino pai tangata!".

Wehiwehi ki te whakaaro, engari te tauākī ā-i kinongia ahau toku whaea, pānga kino i runga i te hononga ki te takoto ritenga. Ki te pera te reira tupu ai kahore e rite te tama tona whaea, ko reira pea ka taea ki te aroha i tana wahine, me ngā tamariki ia. He mōhio o ratou aravihi i te tangata peheé, e kore e whakawhirinaki te iwi, e taea e kore āta aromatawai i te āhuatanga i te mahi, me te i waho te kāinga, e pā ana mahi, me te taiao rite te katoa. E pā ana hoki tenei ki nga tamahine, metua vahine e aroha.

E kore e taea e koe te kawe mai ratou ki te standstill, ka mea atu ki a koe: "ahau he katoa, ahau e ahau he foi (foi), e kore au e ahau te pai nui (pai), Au pahuatia (pahuatia) ahau, te ora o toku whaea," etc. enei whakaaro arahi ki te sikalú ara nui .. ka ruku ki te raruraru hanga. e kore e ngā mātua te whiriwhiri, na me te āhuatanga ki te kia kia haere me te whakarerea noatia toku whaea!

Me pēhea te ki te ora me te aha ki te mahi ki te kore te whaea e aroha ki ahau?

Ko te take mō te taua whakaaro rite whakaahuatia ana i runga. "A ko tenei e founga ki te ora ki reira?" - ui te tamaiti kinongia ki te pakeketanga. Tuatahi o te katoa, e hiahia ana koe ki te mutu, ka tango i nga mea fakamamahi tata ki toku ngakau. Life he kotahi, a he aha e waiho te kounga, mo te wahi tino tei runga i te tangata. Ae, kino, te mea i tupu ki te hononga i waenganui i te whaea, engari e kore katoa te i!

He mea tika ki te mau ki a ia te mea: "ahau kore tukua ahau ki whakaawe toku ao i roto i whakaari kino i roto i toku taha i toku whaea! Ko te ora toku tenei, e hiahia ana ahau ki te whai i te whakaaro hauora me te waiaro takatika ki te ao huri noa ahau! Ka taea e ahau te aroha me te kia aroha! e matau ana ahau ki te hoatu i pai ai, me te farii i te reira i te tētahi atu! Ahau rite ki malimali, ka waiho ahau ki te ataata wake ake i tenei ata, ka haere ki te moe i nga ra! Na whakarerea noatia e ahau toku whaea, a kahore e pupuri i te reira i runga i te kino! aroha ana ahau ki a ia no te mea noa i hoatu e ia ki ahau i te ora! mauruuru ki a ia Ko ahau mo tenei me te mo te haapiiraa ora i hoatu e ia ki ahau! Na ahau e mohio he aha te huru pai e hiahia ana koe ki te mauruuru a tutava mo te tikanga o te aroha i roto i toku ngakau! e mohio ana ahau ki te uara o te aroha, a ka hoatu e te reira e ahau ki toku utuafare! ".

hinengaro te huri

e kore e taea te takoha Love! Well, pai ... Ko ki te huri i to tatou huru, me te tirohanga o te ao, i roto i to tatou upoko unu, ka taea e tatou! radically koe e taea e te huri to ratou huru ki te mea kei te tupu i roto i te utuafare. Ko reira e kore e ohie, engari e tika ana. Kia Me koe āwhina hinengaro ngaio. Ki te mea he kotiro, me ite ia e ko te whaea, me te mea tino faufaa e taea hoatu tō tamaiti ia - ko ki te tango i te tiaki me te aroha!

E kore totonu ke tau feinga ki te pai toku whaea, me tetahi atu. ora Just a tika te mahi mahi pai. Me koe ki te mahi i ki te pai o ratou kaha. Ki te ite koe i te aho, i muri i nei e taea te roimata tupu - mutu, tangohia okiokinga, rethink te āhuatanga, me te neke i runga i. Ki te ite koe e noho toku whaea ano ki runga ki a koe ki te huru pukuriri, me te pana ia koutou ki te kokonga, ata, me te mau mea, "Kahore! Ua pouri ahau, mama, engari e kore ahau e hiahia ana ki te pēhi. Ko ahau he pakeke, me te kawenga mo tona ora. Mauruuru koe hoki te mea ka mau koutou tiaki o ahau! ka whakahoki kupu koe e ahau i roto i te hoki. Otiia e kore e whatiia ahau. e hiahia ana ahau ki te aroha me te ki hoatu aroha ki a koutou tamariki. Ko ratou pai toku! Na au e ahau te mama pai (pai tane) i roto i te ao! ".

E kore totonu ke tau feinga ki te pai te whaea, rawa, ki te nga tau katoa o noho ki a ia a koutou ite e nga mahi, noa'tu eaha te kua hanga ai e koe ka ngohengohe ki te fakaanga ranei, i pai, tau'a. Ora! ora Just! Karangatia tatou a awhinatia toku whaea! Kōrero ki a ia e pā ana ki te aroha, engari e kore e overstrain koe atu! Mahi katoa marie. Na ana tawai katoa e kore ka whakakahore ngatahi! mea tika, "Te tatarahapa nei au, mama ... Te pai, mama ..." me te mea ke atu, ataata, me te neke i runga i. Kia whakaaro - ko te matua ki te ora rangimarie, me te koa!