Haapoupou i te kotiro i runga i tona ataahua. Utu tona aro

Kaua maha tatou e paraparau eé kotiro tino? Ki te kore koe e whakahoki kupu tenei whakaaro pātai, te whakahoki, ko te - tino "ae." Ae, E tatou ki te whakamoemiti ratou, ki te mea he aha e ataahua, atamai, me te ataahua ratou, i roto i te tikanga ki te whakatutuki i ō rātou matua. Kei te ara ka kite a ētahi takatu reira rite te ahua o, e kore tonu ahuareka hopoi'a. Heoi, ki te whakaaro koe pai, huri i te reira i roto i taua haapoupouraa te kotiro i runga i tona ataahua, e kore e pera maha korerotia tatou. I roto i te meka, ko nga tangata o te rau tau whakamutunga nui mārama me te ataahua atu ki te faaite i to ratou mau mana'o, engari, tino nui, i ratou i te reira atu pinepine.

Na whakapono ahau, e titau kotiro hou tatou ki taua tika eé, me te whakaute i tenei i roto i te hunga ratou ake te pouri atu nga kotiro o te rau tau whakamutunga. Na te mea ārai tatou ki te korero i te kotiro i te haapoupouraa e pā ana ki tona ataahua? Pea tatou aroha kore matou wahine, a te faahiahia ratou? e kore o te akoranga. kia pokanoa te reira ki te tāú? Pea. Ko te mea, ko te tangata hou e ite e eé - o te reira te haurangi, a tae noa wehi kia kitea wahine ratou ngoikore ranei tawhito-pupuku hoki o te haapoupouraa. I roto i te meka, tetahi o te haapoupouraa, ara te banal tino, e kore e meinga e te urupare huakore. pai te tangata ki te kia whakamoemiti, me ngā kōtiro rawa aroha ina whakanui ratou ahua.

Na i ahau ki te ako i tēnei pūtaiao ohie. I roto i te meka, he mea utu koutou wa. E mohio ana pehea ki te hanga i te kotiro i te haapoupouraa, ka taea e te whakatutuki koe i te reira, e kore e rere ataahua tinana, kahore he moni, me te mīhini utu. Ko te kaha ki te korero nehenehe faateniteni - he mana whakapehapeha tatou e teie mahana hoohonutanga noa. Na, he aha e hiahia ana koe ki te korero i te kotiro ki te tiki ia wāhi?

Te reira i katoa tei runga i ranei te whakatau koutou ki a ia e kore e ranei. Ki te mea he kotiro koutou e matau pai me ki nei e koe i roto i te hononga, ka konei i koe he mara rawa whanui mō te nekeneke. I roto i mohio i ki mahara ki ta ia pai te tino ko e pai ia ki te whakanui tona ahua. Kia waiho te reira te tahi mea e koutou tika whakahuatia, hei tauira, he dimple i runga i te paparinga nga maihao ataahua ranei. Kaua e wareware ki i ia wa ki te whakarongo ki ngā āhuatanga hou o tona whakapakoko - e te reira i te reira hoki koutou. A e kore e tonoa kīanga mau rite "titiro koe pai tenei ra", tāpiri i te taketake iti - ko koutou kotiro mooni tupu. Mea atu e "whakamiharo ngā putea reira ki ona kanohi ataahua," ranei e "ona hu hou rite ki te hanga rawa mo te atua." Ko tino nui, e kore e wareware ki te hanga eé auau, noa'tu te roa e kore kua koutou tutaki. Whakapono ahau, ko reira te wa katoa e tatari ana mo tenei.

Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga i te haapoupouraa ki te kotiro ke, ka hiahia tatou he huarahi paku rerekē. hoatu tokomaha nga wahine i te arai i roto i nei kia haere manene takatu ki te whakamatau i tona utu rite te taata, e tika o ia. Ko te tika tenei arai mo ki a koe hinga. tūtohutia ētahi ngaio "Girls tiki" (mohoao mō wahine) te ki te whakamahi hoki i tēnei haapoupouraa ki te raro rua, me i te wa taua e whakamoemiti ana ia, me te whakaiti i tona kiritau-. Hei tauira, "titiro e kakahu tino ki runga ki a koe - huna reira koutou raruraru taimaha." Ko te pai "paru" ara tenei. ai ia te mahi, engari nui pai ki te ohorere aroha nei o tona pono me te taketake i te taunu huna ia.

Ko te mea matua ko te ki te haapoupou i te kotiro i runga i tona ataahua kore tangi rite te hiri. Ki te tino faauruhia koutou e tenei tangata, ngana ki te faaite tika o ratou whakaaro. Ahakoa, ki te whakakahore te tangata koutou ranei kata hoki ki a koutou, e kore e taitaia, kia mohio ki te kitea te kotiro nei e mauruuru tou huarahi. Kaua e wehi ki te mea heahea rorirori ranei, te mea ki ta koutou whakaaro. Rawa, ki atu ki reira ki te iwi, mauruuru wahine taua kupu reka. Tetahi haapoupou i te kotiro i runga i tona ataahua ki te iwi he mea pārekareka. mea Just "hanga haurangi koe ona kanohi," ranei "e kore tana ataata mai i roto o to koutou matenga." Mea atu i te reira i roto i nui ki mo te katoa te whakarongo - me tetahi, ara te matao tino, ia tika rewa!