Communication o te pāhekoheko

Me ki te kōrero i te whanautanga te katoa. Ka taea te wehea kōrero i waenganui i te iwi ki ngā āhuatanga nui e toru: perception, kōrero me te pāhekoheko. Interesting Ko te meka i te mea e taea ki te whakatau i te tirohanga kōrero ranei i roto i "puka parakore", e ko, motu ke i te tahi atu wāhanga katoa o te kōrero, ka tīpako Communication rite taunekeneke i roto i te rarangi motuhake he tata e taea.

huaina kē te ingoa rawa o tenei tukanga te uara o te kōmihana o tetahi mahi: "peia ia ahau ki te mahi i tetahi mea," "e te reira i te pēhanga ki runga ki ahau, engari e kore e hoatu e te reira e ahau" ranei "faa'aano te reira ki ahau".

Communication rite taunekeneke titau te whai wāhi mātātoa i roto i te kōrero o te interlocutors e rua. A ki te iti kōrero kōrerorero te anake ki te kōrero o te kōrero, me te tirohanga - auscultation tika atu whakaaro o iwi, whai koe i tetahi tauhohenga ki te interlocutor e te tukanga kōrero i roto i te kāwai rerekē.

E fifi kōrero ētahi iwi. He tino rerekē te take. Autism, paku ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro, mamahu, me te tino kinongia mata ki te meka i katia te tangata te roto ano, ko reira e taea anake ki te kite, engari āhua e kore e tauhohe ki te mōhiohio.

Āta, iwi e rite noa te rangi whakautu e tika ana ki te interlocutor, he tangata tīmata ki te tiki a tawhio. A i roto i te noa! Tino maha, mo te tino kinongia me te wehe waho huna ngawari te ngakau kaungāongo'i, a roto te whakahaere tonu te mahi i te pae varua hohonu. A ki te mea ka taea ki te "kōrero" ki riro i runga i te āhua, tahuri te tirohanga noa i roto i te kōrero e rite ana te pāhekoheko tangata, ko ia tino waimarie. Best kaitohutohu me te hoa, pea, e kore e kitea i roto i te ao katoa.

He pea atu ki te puta Takitahi, rawa i roto i nga wahine, e hanga ratou raruraru o ratou interlocutors ki te kōrero i te meka e ratou hiahia ki te taha anake kommukativnuyu o te whakahaere. Taua iwi, he ratou rite rakau grouse i runga i te lek. Whakapanga te mōhiohio tika tangata, e kore e whakaaro i te reira e pā ana ki ranei he reira ngā ki te tangata, engari a ratou, tangohia e ratou o ratou ahua o te kōrero , ko te tino e kore e hiahia i roto i te whakaaro o te interlocutor. Tenei "kēmu ki tetahi anake whāinga" - he tino kore he kōrero rite pāhekoheko!

He aha e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio i te tangata tuhi ki te waiho i te hoa ahuareka whakaturia he whāinga ki te whakamatau i tetahi mea whakamahi te karanga ki te huri i te whakaaro o tona "tauira" ranei ranei?

Ahakoa te meka e katoa o tatou whakaaro e te tahi mea tino i tupu, a ka kōrero tatou, e kore te mea e tika ana ki te whakaako i te taua katoa i reira e etahi ture o whakahaere. I muri i te katoa, fele e pupuri i te whakahaere - ko te pūtaiao!

Ko te tu o mua ki te puta i waenganui i te rua o te kōrero e rite ana ko reira te pāhekoheko, ki te taua, me te tōtika - ko te tohatoha tika o te tūranga interlocutors tenei. Ko, i roto i ia āhuatanga kotahi ko te ariki me te atu - he pononga. I roto i te whakahaere kia whai i te "mekameka o te whakahau".

ārahi tūranga hoki he ona ake wehenga ki "kaiwhakahaere", me te "ponimatelya". I roto i te take tuatahi, e hāngai ana te kōrero kei te i runga i te hiahia ki te whakahaere i te āhuatanga me te hiahia ki te nuinga. e kore te mea taua kōrero tonu te pononga pai, kia rite iti rite taea ki te kōrero ki te iwi waiwai iwi tamata - ". kaiwhakahaere"

I roto i te take tuarua, ka taea te kite i te tūranga ārahi rite i runga i te ariā o te taurite o te interlocutors. Here ki te tūranga nui takaro e te hiahia arahi whakahaere kahore pakanga, ki matau koutou hoa, me te tae i te kawenata tahi, me pai te ahunga whakamua o ngā whiriwhiringa. Ko reira ki taua iwi he tino ahuareka ki te kōrero, mauruuru te karapoti noa ahakoa o pono tūturu ranei i nga hua. I muri i te whakapā atu ki te iwi o tona pokepokea ai i roto i te ua rau te mana'o ahuareka e te tahi atu tangata i nia i te raruraru, a tamata i te tauturu.

whai te reira i tenei postulate: ki te hiahia koe te iwi ki te kōrero me te hiahia ki te whakapā atu ki a koe, ngana ki te matau a ratou, tu i runga i te tūranga o te taurite, tae noa ki te ki e tono koe tohutohu ranei.